The Compatibility Report for
Birth Data for Ivana:
20 February 1949
Birth Data for Donald:
14 June 1946
Queens, New York
This Lovers Report is divided into 4 chapters.
Chapter 1 compares your temperaments and personalities. The issues described in Chapter 1 become particularly powerful if you are married or live together. Idiosyncrasies or quirks in another person’s personality do not bother us as much if our relationship is a casual one. For example, if one person is neat and tidy and the other is sloppy, this is more likely to become a concern if you are married than if you are only seeing each other occasionally.
Pay close attention to the issues described in Chapter 2 because these are the most important themes in your relationship. For example, if themes of romance and sexual attraction are emphasized, then you can count on this relationship being a passionate one. However, if romance and sexuality are hardly mentioned at all, then this relationship will not be a passionate one. Note also that the material in Chapter 2 is presented roughly in order of importance, so that the material presented at the beginning of Chapter 2 is the most powerful.
Chapter 4 describes issues in your relationship of less importance than those presented in Chapter 2. Chapter 3 describes situations and circumstances that arise if you have a close, long-lasting relationship.
If a statement appears to contradict another statement, then your roles are likely to alternate. For example, a statement that Ivana is more aggressive than Donald, and another statement that Donald is more aggressive than Ivana, means that you alternate roles, with Ivana sometimes being the leader and Donald being the follower, and sometimes just the opposite. Also, read the statements carefully, as it is likely that a careful reading will reveal different kinds of aggressiveness or areas in which the aggressiveness is likely to express itself.
To make the most of this report, combine this astrological analysis with other things that you know about each other. For example, we have assumed that you are opposite-sexed (assuming that both of you are heterosexual, otherwise same-sexed). Physical attractiveness, age, religion, education, family and cultural background will affect your relationship as well. The material in Chapters 2, 3, and 4 of this report describes the magnetism between you, but does not describe your individual natures. For example, suppose that Chapter 2 makes little mention of romance and sexuality, but the Natal Reports for each of you indicate that each of you has extremely strong romantic and sexual desires. In this case, marriage is not likely to be successful! However, if romance and sexuality are not important to either of you, then the lack of passion in your relationship is not likely to be as much of a stumbling block.
Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of
the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of
students of astrology, these positions, along with other
technical information, are listed below:
Positions and Data for Ivana:
Sun position is 1 deg. 02 min. of Pisces
Moon position is 0 deg. 37 min. of Sagittarius
Mercury position is 5 deg. 53 min. of Aquarius
Venus position is 17 deg. 01 min. of Aquarius
Mars position is 6 deg. 31 min. of Pisces
Jupiter position is 21 deg. 31 min. of Capricorn
Saturn position is 2 deg. 56 min. of Virgo
Uranus position is 26 deg. 35 min. of Gemini
Neptune position is 14 deg. 51 min. of Libra
Pluto position is 15 deg. 01 min. of Leo
Asc. position is 24 deg. 52 min. of Scorpio
MC position is 14 deg. 49 min. of Virgo
2nd cusp position is 26 deg. 18 min. of Sagittarius
3rd cusp position is 5 deg. 54 min. of Aquarius
5th cusp position is 14 deg. 55 min. of Aries
6th cusp position is 7 deg. 14 min. of Taurus
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 23:55:00
Time Zone: 1 hours East. Lat & Long: 49 N 13 17 E 41
Positions and Data for Donald:
Sun position is 22 deg. 56 min. of Gemini
Moon position is 21 deg. 12 min. of Sagittarius
Mercury position is 8 deg. 52 min. of Cancer
Venus position is 25 deg. 44 min. of Cancer
Mars position is 26 deg. 47 min. of Leo
Jupiter position is 17 deg. 27 min. of Libra
Saturn position is 23 deg. 49 min. of Cancer
Uranus position is 17 deg. 54 min. of Gemini
Neptune position is 5 deg. 51 min. of Libra
Pluto position is 10 deg. 03 min. of Leo
Asc. position is 29 deg. 56 min. of Leo
MC position is 24 deg. 18 min. of Taurus
2nd cusp position is 22 deg. 58 min. of Virgo
3rd cusp position is 21 deg. 09 min. of Libra
5th cusp position is 29 deg. 18 min. of Sagittarius
6th cusp position is 1 deg. 43 min. of Aquarius
Tropical/PLACIDUS Daylight Savings Time observed. GMT: 14:54:00
Time Zone: 5 hours West. Lat & Long: 40 N 43 73 W 52
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
Ivana’s Sun in Pisces and Donald’s Sun in Gemini:
Both of you are very open-minded, adaptable and flexible people, who are receptive to many different points of view and ideas. You are both also quite changeable and fluid and sometimes inconsistent. If you are looking for a steadying hand or a rock of Gibraltar, look elsewhere.
Donald approaches situations or problems in a more cerebral, rational manner, while Ivana relies more on intuition and feelings. Donald may sometimes try to force Ivana to directly discuss an issue, which can be futile. Ivana may not be able to articulate ideas in as convincing a way as Donald, but Ivana tends to draw upon a level of wisdom and sensitivity that is very deep, though difficult to formulate clearly in words. Donald is more factual, like a reporter, and Ivana is more of a poet. You both must remember that there is truth in both ways of understanding the world. Donald finds Ivana ineffable and enigmatic at times. Ivana find Donald’s nervous energy and hectic pace rather unnerving.
Ivana’s Moon in Sagittarius and Donald’s Moon in Sagittarius:
You have an instinctive understanding of one another, and there is a great deal of harmony and camaraderie between you.
Both of you are naturally optimistic and forward-looking, and don’t let problems or frustrations get you down for long. Humor is one way you deal with life’s troubles, and you can make fun of yourselves as well as others. Sometimes, however, you make light of difficulties that other people are struggling through and it may seem that you don’t really empathize or care. You have an intellectual or philosophical way of dealing with emotional situations, which distances you somewhat from feeling and experiencing them directly. You always try to be positive and to see the possible good or growth that can come from any situation, but sometimes this attitude is a denial of what you are really feeling in the moment. You only want to accept the “good” emotions in yourself or other people, and are inclined to tell others how they “should” feel.
Also, there is a very playful, exuberant, fun-loving side to you both, and you are generally fun to be around. You like to gamble, party, or move around a lot. You both have a strong sense of adventure and need to feel free to explore and wander into new territory sometimes.
Neither of you could tolerate a very possessive, emotionally demanding partner. You are both idealistic and if your belief systems, ideals, or philosophical attitudes differ radically, this is an area where you can really clash.
Both of you have Sun in hard aspect to Moon:
Both of you fight with yourselves at times, or get confused about what you really want or need. This internal tension, or the conflicting needs and wants within each of you, is apt to spill over into any or all of your close relationships at times. So beware of blaming your problems on one another, or on your relationship. Quite often it is simply a problem within yourself.
Constant togetherness most likely will not work well for the two of you. Both of you need to have time for yourselves which enables you to “do your own thing” or depart occasionally from your day to day mode of operating. This is absolutely necessary for emotional refueling – and will add to the health of your relationship.
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
Donald’s Asc. Opposition Ivana’s Sun:
Ivana embodies many of the characteristics that Donald is seeking in a mate or partner, and Donald finds Ivana irresistibly appealing for this reason. Ivana is also the polar opposite of Donald in many ways, so that you complement or balance one another very well. However, the very qualities that originally were so attractive may become sources of friction between you. Donald, don’t expect Ivana to be like you are! One of the gifts Ivana has for you is to show you “the other side of the coin”. For instance, if you are very logical and rational, you partner may have a highly intuitive or poetic mind (or vice versa). Instead of accusing your partner of being irrational or fuzzy-minded, try to appreciate that difference between you.
Ivana’s Asc. Square Donald’s Mars:
The two of you frequently approach work and goals in very different ways, and consequently you are inclined to step on each other’s toes. Ivana may feel that Donald is pushy or insensitive to all of the issues and concerns that are involved in a situation. You can work together very effectively, but it requires you to allow each other the freedom to approach problems in a very different way than you would. Very often you can accomplish more by working separately from each other on different aspects of a problem rather than attempting to work jointly.
Donald’s Asc. Square Ivana’s Moon:
Irritations over relatively minor incidents and situations, combined with a tendency to have differing tastes, preferences, and interests may make an intimate, long-lasting relationship difficult. You do care a great deal for each other, though, and both of you feel exceedingly bad after a quarrel. If you can be tolerant of each other’s differing attitudes, interests, and lifestyles, the negative tendencies of this astrological influence will be minimized.
Ivana’s Asc. Trine Donald’s Venus:
Romantic attraction is strong and you both deeply admire and appreciate each other. Romantic or sentimental gestures, such as bringing home flowers, come naturally to both of you and this love affair is very important to both of you – and could possibly lead to a long-term relationship or marriage.
Ivana’s Asc. Trine Donald’s Saturn:
Donald is a stabilizing force in Ivana’s life, and offers steady, quiet support when Ivana is in need. Donald may help Ivana build a firm foundation and long-term security for Ivana’s life. It is easy for you to be committed to one another, both as friends and as lovers.
Ivana’s Mercury Trine Donald’s Neptune:
You enjoy discussing any subject that has an imaginative or mystical quality – art, music, fiction, theater, or religion. You kindle each other’s imagination and ideals. You work together well in the arts, and humanitarian and religious areas. You have a strong intuitive and psychic rapport and often understand each other without need for words.
Donald’s Mercury Trine Ivana’s Mars:
You inspire each other to refine and clarify your ideas, plans and strategies. You are an effective team in research, writing, or business pursuits. You also help each other to successfully implement a plan or follow through on an idea until it manifests as a successful product or creative work. You also have spirited, feisty debates with one another.
Ivana’s Venus Trine Donald’s Jupiter:
You are generous with one another, always ready to help each other, and you have a great respect and appreciation for one another. You also allow one another a lot of freedom to develop other friendships, rather than clinging possessively to one another. You may also benefit from one another materially as well as emotionally.
Ivana’s Venus Trine Donald’s Uranus:
This is a lively, enthusiastic, exciting relationship. You feel very uninhibited with each other and are able to express yourselves freely with each other. If you both enjoy dancing, music, or similar sports, then you have found an excellent partner for these activities! Sexual compatibility is also high and you are likely to feel that your partner is a wonderful lover.
Donald’s Mars Sextile Ivana’s Uranus:
You inspire confident, assertive, dynamic feelings in each other, and together you enjoy being daring, acting boldly, making definite decisions and following through on them. Your partnership is a positive, dynamic one that will help both of you reach your goals. You encourage one another to be inventive, to try new approaches and this recharges and vitalizes your sexual relationship as well as your life in general.
Destiny and Final Outcome of Your Relationship
Composite Moon Sextile Neptune:
There is great empathy and intuitive understanding here, a kind of emotional and psychic rapport that enables you to “know” the other without a lot of words needing to be exchanged. You have a certain understanding, a flow of sympathy between you, an essentially spiritual connection in many ways.
One of the purposes of your relationship is to foster this psychic and spiritual sensitivity in you both. Through your relationship you’ll become more compassionate, and more appreciative of the feminine side of life.
Composite Moon Trine Pluto:
Yours is destined to be a profound emotional union. There is a compelling, irresistible, intense desire to know one another deeply, and to be together.
If you are seeking a light, casual relationship just for fun and good times, you may want to run away from this one – if you can! Inevitably, you will have powerful feelings of attachment, even jealous possessiveness, toward one another. This needn’t be troubling though. Mostly it’s just a testament to your strong bond.
If either or both of you tends to be too rational and intellectual, your relationship with one another will remedy that! You’ll share deeper feelings and become much more open to your own inner emotional life through being together. In fact, you may well have come together after one or both of you suffered a significant loss or trauma, and were thus much more aware of your heart and feelings and those deeper concerns that crisis forces upon us. One of the purposes of your relationship is to experience the depths of which you are capable, with another person.
Composite Mercury Sextile Uranus:
As a couple, you are likely to attract people who are intellectually inspired and awake, interesting, and interested in innovative, unconventional, or “far out” ideas and methods. Associations with eccentric thinkers are destined to play a significant part in your relationship.
Intellectually you are not apt to be bored with one another, and you will always find the mental component of your relationship to be lively and stimulating.
Composite Saturn Conjunct Pluto:
Clearly it is not the destiny of this partnership to have only ease and plenty, sweetness and light. In fact, periods of extreme hardship, difficulty, scarcity, and great stress will be endured by the two of you, especially if your relationship is a long one. At times you’ll both feel that “it’s you and me against the cruel world”, and outside sources of support will be inadequate or nonexistent. However, you two will forge a deep bond through meeting the loss or deprivation. Furthermore, having been through the worst and confronted some of your greatest fears, both of you will discover an inner resiliency and strength which will add to the closeness you share.
Composite Sun Conjunct Mercury:
Yours is an intellectual relationship, among other things. Exchanging thoughts, studying together, sharing information, talking and bantering, turning one another on to new books or ideas, sparking one another’s curiosity and interest in the world – all of these are important aspects of your relationship. A certain detachment and the ability to think about and talk about what is going on between you are also highlighted. Put simply, becoming more conscious or more informed and educated is a significant reason the two of you are drawn together.
Composite Moon Trine Saturn:
Loyalty, stability, and commitment characterize this relationship, which is destined to be a long-lasting one. Because you are consistently there for one another, and can be counted on for practical as well as emotional support, a solid feeling of security builds between you. As time goes on, the history you share becomes a strong force binding you two together. Your relationship becomes a great source of strength for each of you.
Together you are fairly realistic, not expecting more than another human being is capable of providing. You’ll also do well in any long-term investing or joint ownership of property.
Composite Venus Quincunx Jupiter:
Mishandling your shared assets, spending too freely or on the wrong things, wanting more than you can really afford, excessiveness, waste, overindulgence – these will become issues in your relationship. As a duo, you may be drawn into get-rich-quick schemes or into a pattern of buy-now-pay-later, which will haunt you later. In some way, a laxness and desire for ease will become trouble for you. Part of the purpose of your coming together is to learn to discern and discriminate between what you truly need to be greatly happy, and what are simply trappings. A redefinition of what constitutes “the good life” will emerge.
Composite Mars Opposition Jupiter:
Together you will take the kind of risks in life that neither of you may have dreamed of doing individually. You encourage, invigorate, and spur one another on to greater achievements. Partly through competition and egging one another on, each of you aspires toward goals that may well have seemed out of your reach before you two came together. Even in minor, day-to-day matters there is a positive, we-can-do-it spirit that infuses your relationship.
You will need to be very active together and are prone to get cabin fever, to feel cramped and unhappy together, if you are not tackling challenges or doing something rambunctious. Physical play and adventure are essential ingredients for the health and success of this relationship.
Other Themes in Your Relationship
Ivana’s Sun in Donald’s 7th house,
Donald’s Sun in Ivana’s 7th house:
Although you have opposite personalities in some ways, you complement each other well and both of you enjoy having a partner that takes care of many of the things that you prefer to avoid. Bonding is very strong and you are likely to be good friends throughout your lives.
Ivana’s Moon in Donald’s 4th house:
It is highly probably that you will become involved in domestic affairs together, even if your relationship is not a close one. You enjoy living together and sharing in cooking, home maintenance, and you feel like “family” with each other.
Donald’s Moon in Ivana’s 1st house:
Donald’s family background and domestic life has a striking effect on Ivana. Ivana may feel “adopted” by Donald’s family or find that Donald’s life style and home makes Ivana feel extremely comfortable and at peace.
Ivana’s Mercury in Donald’s 6th house:
You enjoy tackling practical chores together. Ivana, in particular, provides Donald with lots of ideas on how to maintain health, property, and efficiently run daily affairs.
Donald’s Mercury in Ivana’s 8th house:
Your conversations are rarely superficial, and the intensity and depth of your conversations may have been an important factor in drawing the two of you into a relationship. You are also likely to develop joint business ventures or financial strategies.
Ivana’s Venus in Donald’s 6th house:
Donald sees Ivana as a person who is ready and willing to help with any problems that arise. Ivana is a dependable friend that Donald can count on.
Donald’s Venus in Ivana’s 8th house:
Donald stirs Ivana’s romantic and sexual feelings. Donald is exciting, almost mysterious to Ivana. An intense, but emotionally complex relationship can easily develop.
Ivana’s Mars in Donald’s 7th house:
Ivana has a “take charge” attitude towards this relationship. Also, Ivana comes across very strong, perhaps aggressively, at times. Donald appreciates Ivana’s direct, uninhibited approach, but there is a tendency to become combative and competitive with each other at times.
Donald’s Mars in Ivana’s 9th house:
Donald challenges Ivana’s philosophical viewpoints and religious beliefs. There is the possibility that Donald will try to force individual views on Ivana.
Ivana’s Jupiter in Donald’s 5th house:
The two of you enjoy playing games together, engaging in creative activities, hobbies, and you generally have lots of fun together. Also, Ivana encourages Donald’s creative talents and interests and enjoys promoting and assisting Donald’s creativity, whether it be as simple as baking a cake or a major undertaking.
Donald’s Jupiter in Ivana’s 11th house:
Circumstances develop so that the two of you become very active together in community affairs, socializing, or political/social action. Together the two of you explore many social circles and develop a wide variety of friends and acquaintances.
Ivana’s Saturn in Donald’s 1st house:
Ivana’s more mature, responsible, reliable side comes out in this relationship. Ivana becomes almost paternalistic in this relationship, always being concerned about Donald’s well-being. Ivana is also inclined to offer lots of critical advice, at times interfering too much with Donald’s plans and goals. Ivana’s “helpful criticism” sometimes sours into moralistic judgments. Ivana should be wary of the tendency to control or severely limit Donald’s sense of freedom.
Donald’s Saturn in Ivana’s 8th house:
If you are married or live together, you will find that finances and management of resources become a significant issue in your relationship. Donald is likely to be hesitant to freely provide and give as willingly as Ivana would like. One of you often wants to keep certain assets owned individually and is unwilling to share them. The problem may be more subtle also, and one of you is likely to feel at times that the other is selfish and unwilling to share, even if you cannot defend your reasons for feeling this way. You are also likely to find that attitudes towards sexuality and love-making are different, and your moods are not always in sync with each other. You may wish your mate were more sensitive, or more aggressive (or less aggressive), more romantic (or less romantic), etc. On the other hand, if both of you are able to avoid the tendency to be selfish at times and withhold feelings, you may find that you are able to overcome old habits of extravagance, poor judgment and lack of discernment in financial matters. Illusions about romance can also be replaced with more realistic views.
Ivana’s Uranus in Donald’s 10th house:
Ivana has lots of original ideas on how Donald can best achieve career goals. Ivana is likely to encourage Donald to take a more adventurous, risky route, and Ivana often feels that Donald holds back by being too conservative and security conscious. However, not all of Ivana’s ideas are well founded, and Donald must have the ability to separate the really useful creative ideas from those that will only result in chaos and confusion.
Donald’s Uranus in Ivana’s 7th house:
Donald introduces new social circles to Ivana. There are many surprises in store for both of you in this regard, and it is likely that you find many of each other’s friends to be a bit difficult to feel comfortable around. Ivana, in particular, is likely to find that social life changes a lot through this relationship. Donald can sometimes even be disruptive and disturbing to Ivana’s friendships, which could make Ivana feel it necessary to choose between Donald and friends, which would be upsetting to your whole relationship. Positively, Donald will introduce fresh perspectives, enthusiasm and inspiration to Ivana’s social life.
Ivana’s Neptune in Donald’s 2nd house:
If you are married, you need to be careful about how you jointly handle your finances. Ivana may encourage a joint investment that proves to be unsuccessful. Ivana tends to be idealistic and impractical regarding your joint assets.
Donald’s Neptune in Ivana’s 10th house:
Donald tends to have idealistic notions of what Ivana can achieve in a worldly sense, and consequently Donald is likely to encourage Ivana to pursue dreams without compromise. Ivana needs to be careful not to lose sight of the practical details that are needed to meet these goals.
Ivana’s Pluto in Donald’s 12th house:
There is a deep emotional and psychic tie between you that may not be apparent in the early stages of your relationship, but over time you begin to work together very closely on matters of very deep, personal concern. Together you uncover a lot of previously hidden problems and limitations stemming from early childhood. You probe any fears, phobias, or guilt that limits your ability to live a happy, fulfilling life.
Donald’s Pluto in Ivana’s 9th house:
Donald challenges Ivana’s philosophical and religious views. You are likely to find yourselves in enthusiastic, and sometimes heated, conversations about politics and social issues. These conversations are penetrating and deep, and both of you are likely to find them illuminating, although often uncomfortable as well.
Donald’s Sun Conjunct Ivana’s Uranus:
You inspire each other to try new things, experiment, and investigate alternatives. You may have met each other, for example, during a time period when both of you were breaking free from traditional values and exploring new possibilities. There is a lot of excitement and spontaneity in your relationship. The two of you may find it difficult to settle down into a stable life style – there will always be surprises and unexpected turns in your relationship. You encounter lots of new ideas, unusual people, adventure, and exciting times together. You both enjoy a good measure of freedom and independence in this relationship, but either of you may wish that there was more commitment, devotion, seriousness, warmth, and closeness.
Ivana’s Sun Opposition Donald’s Mars:
The physical and sexual attraction between the two of you is very strong. You are attracted to one another’s strength and integrity. You may also enjoy competing with each other in games. However, be wary of a tendency to become rivals or adversaries, trying to out-perform each other.
Donald’s Asc. Conjunct Ivana’s Saturn:
Ivana restricts, disciplines, disapproves of, or criticizes Donald, often in a subtle way or with the assumption that it’s for Donald’s own good. This has the effect of either undermining Donald’s confidence or of forcing Donald to become even stronger and more definite in order to stand up to Ivana.
Especially at the beginning of your relationship, Ivana is likely to be the dominant partner, and Donald may acquiesce to Ivana’s wishes, even when they inhibit Donald’s own natural self-expression. Donald will respect Ivana, and may actually benefit from the structure, stability, and security that Ivana provides. Donald also feels that Ivana is someone to be trusted and depended on, and in turn may feel obligated to Ivana in some important way. There is definitely the potential for a deep commitment between you, but the relationship can easily become stifling also, especially for Donald. Ivana must avoid trying to control Donald.
Ivana’s Moon Square Donald’s Mars:
The physical and sexual attraction between you is strong, but the tendency to frustrate each other and rouse each other’s wrath is equally strong. Although the attraction between you is powerful, you should think carefully before making a long-term commitment, because the tendency to argue and nag each other is an undesirable side to this relationship that both of you will need to contend with. The sexual aspect of your relationship has an almost aggressive quality to it. Some couples who have this astrological influence enjoy wrestling as a form of foreplay! Try not to be too pushy or demanding with each other, as this quickly precipitates arguments and hostile feelings.
Ivana’s Moon Trine Donald’s Venus:
There is a particularly sweet, loving, caring quality to your relationship that both of you may tend to take for granted. Others, who lack this quality in their own relationship, do notice it and may enjoy the kindness and devotion you have for each other. You both find it easy to give freely to each other.
Ivana’s Mercury Opposition Donald’s Pluto:
Your conversations have a deep, probing quality. You uncover hidden aspects of yourselves and, in general, you find that you can share at a much deeper level than you can with most people. If you encounter a topic where you strongly disagree with each other, you will both hammer on this issue until it is resolved or until death – whichever comes first!
Donald’s Venus Opposition Ivana’s Jupiter:
The two of you spark each other’s sense of humor and good will. You usually put each other into a good mood, and you can count on lots of laughter, fun, and socializing to develop from this relationship. You feel open and uninhibited with each other, and a great appreciation for each other grows out of your happy times together.
Donald’s Jupiter Conjunct Ivana’s Neptune:
You dream big and beautiful dreams together and because you stimulate one another’s faith, optimism, and idealism, you feel that anything is possible. If either or both of you tend to be impractical or irresponsible, being with one another will increase that propensity, and together you are likely to harbor unrealistic hopes or ungrounded, grandiose schemes and speculations. You may become sloppy or lazy together. On the other hand, if you are fairly disciplined and well-balanced people, you will encourage each other to take a leap of faith, and to push past previous limits and boundaries that you’ve set for yourselves. Traveling, enjoyable escapades, or spiritual quests are an important aspect of your relationship.
Ivana’s Jupiter Opposition Donald’s Saturn:
This relationship can be a restrictive and frustrating experience for Ivana, who feels that Donald opposes Ivana’s aspirations or limits Ivana’s opportunities and freedom. Donald may feel a need to control or discipline Ivana and do so overtly, or may simply seem to disapprove and hold Ivana down in subtle ways. This is because Ivana stirs up some of Donald’s insecurities and fears. Donald can become free of some of these inhibitions through this relationship. Patience and understanding on Ivana’s part, and a willingness to be flexible on Donald’s, will enable the two of you be more harmonious together.