The Compatibility Report for
Birth Data for Dean:
16 November 1966
Birth Data for Tori:
16 May 1973
Los Angeles, California
This Lovers Report is divided into 4 chapters.
Chapter 1 compares your temperaments and personalities. The issues described in Chapter 1 become particularly powerful if you are married or live together. Idiosyncrasies or quirks in another person’s personality do not bother us as much if our relationship is a casual one. For example, if one person is neat and tidy and the other is sloppy, this is more likely to become a concern if you are married than if you are only seeing each other occasionally.
Pay close attention to the issues described in Chapter 2 because these are the most important themes in your relationship. For example, if themes of romance and sexual attraction are emphasized, then you can count on this relationship being a passionate one. However, if romance and sexuality are hardly mentioned at all, then this relationship will not be a passionate one. Note also that the material in Chapter 2 is presented roughly in order of importance, so that the material presented at the beginning of Chapter 2 is the most powerful.
Chapter 4 describes issues in your relationship of less importance than those presented in Chapter 2. Chapter 3 describes situations and circumstances that arise if you have a close, long-lasting relationship.
If a statement appears to contradict another statement, then your roles are likely to alternate. For example, a statement that Dean is more aggressive than Tori, and another statement that Tori is more aggressive than Dean, means that you alternate roles, with Dean sometimes being the leader and Tori being the follower, and sometimes just the opposite. Also, read the statements carefully, as it is likely that a careful reading will reveal different kinds of aggressiveness or areas in which the aggressiveness is likely to express itself.
To make the most of this report, combine this astrological analysis with other things that you know about each other. For example, we have assumed that you are opposite-sexed (assuming that both of you are heterosexual, otherwise same-sexed). Physical attractiveness, age, religion, education, family and cultural background will affect your relationship as well. The material in Chapters 2, 3, and 4 of this report describes the magnetism between you, but does not describe your individual natures. For example, suppose that Chapter 2 makes little mention of romance and sexuality, but the Natal Reports for each of you indicate that each of you has extremely strong romantic and sexual desires. In this case, marriage is not likely to be successful! However, if romance and sexuality are not important to either of you, then the lack of passion in your relationship is not likely to be as much of a stumbling block.
Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of
the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of
students of astrology, these positions, along with other
technical information, are listed below:
Positions and Data for Dean:
Sun position is 23 deg. 54 min. of Scorpio
Moon position is 16 deg. 09 min. of Capricorn
Mercury position is 25 deg. 40 min. of Scorpio
Venus position is 25 deg. 48 min. of Scorpio
Mars position is 20 deg. 27 min. of Virgo
Jupiter position is 4 deg. 27 min. of Leo
Saturn position is 23 deg. 00 min. of Pisces
Uranus position is 23 deg. 33 min. of Virgo
Neptune position is 21 deg. 59 min. of Scorpio
Pluto position is 20 deg. 17 min. of Virgo
Asc. position is 27 deg. 50 min. of Capricorn
MC position is 23 deg. 20 min. of Scorpio
2nd cusp position is 16 deg. 26 min. of Pisces
3rd cusp position is 26 deg. 05 min. of Aries
5th cusp position is 14 deg. 29 min. of Gemini
6th cusp position is 4 deg. 19 min. of Cancer
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 17:00:00
Time Zone: 5 hours West. Lat & Long: 43 N 39 79 W 23
Positions and Data for Tori:
Sun position is 25 deg. 19 min. of Taurus
Moon position is 15 deg. 45 min. of Scorpio
Mercury position is 20 deg. 29 min. of Taurus
Venus position is 4 deg. 54 min. of Gemini
Mars position is 5 deg. 45 min. of Pisces
Jupiter position is 11 deg. 48 min. of Aquarius
Saturn position is 20 deg. 17 min. of Gemini
Uranus position is 19 deg. 39 min. of Libra
Neptune position is 6 deg. 22 min. of Sagittarius
Pluto position is 1 deg. 52 min. of Libra
Asc. position is 15 deg. 01 min. of Aquarius
MC position is 1 deg. 03 min. of Sagittarius
2nd cusp position is 28 deg. 31 min. of Pisces
3rd cusp position is 4 deg. 08 min. of Taurus
5th cusp position is 23 deg. 49 min. of Gemini
6th cusp position is 16 deg. 43 min. of Cancer
Tropical/PLACIDUS Daylight Savings Time observed. GMT: 08:13:00
Time Zone: 8 hours West. Lat & Long: 34 N 03 08 118 W 14 34
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
Dean’s Sun in Scorpio and Tori’s Sun in Taurus:
There is a strong magnetic attraction between the two of you and even if you have little in common intellectually or spiritually, your physical relationship is likely to be very intense, binding you together. If you do have common interests and resonate on an intellectual level as well, you will be unable to stay away from each other! You are both very possessive, and Dean especially is prone to jealousy.
There are significant differences in your emotional makeup, however: Tori is steadier, simpler, less complex, and less needy than Dean is. Dean demands more in terms of emotional involvement and depth of intimacy than Tori.
You are both extremely stubborn, strong-willed people and you both need to learn to bend and compromise more graciously in order to harmonize with one another. Neither of you is especially articulate or communicative about the things that matter most to you, and much misunderstanding can result.
Dean’s Moon in Capricorn and Tori’s Moon in Scorpio:
Both of you are quiet and you often don’t express all that you are feeling, but the reasons for this are quite different in each of you.
Dean tends to repress feelings, emotional needs, and the inner child who wants to play and to be taken care of. Practical matters, work, and responsibilities take precedence over play and pleasure, and desires which are “too childish” or “unrealistic” are downplayed. Dean often keeps an emotional distance and will not get emotionally involved. Frequently Dean seems impassive, unresponsive, or emotionally detached, and has a habit of taking life too seriously. Material security and success can become a substitute for emotional well-being and happiness.
Tori, on the other hand, is intensely emotional, though very private and secretive about feelings. Tori is deep, complex, given to silent brooding, and often harbors unspoken feelings for a long time. Resentments, guilts, and secret fears can build up to tremendous proportions if not shared and released.
Neither of you trusts others very readily and you are both afraid of being vulnerable or not in control. This can prevent you from opening up completely to one another. You are both capable of great depth, fidelity, and constancy in a relationship, and neither of you is superficial emotionally. For this reason you can be harmonious together.
Both of you have Sun conjunct or in hard aspect to Mercury:
Wit, intelligence, and an active mind are attributes the two of you share, and in your relationship there will be a focus on communicating, bantering, a lot of verbal give and take. Both of you tend to be the dominant one in any discussion or debate, and you may find yourselves competing with each other in your discussions. This most likely will not be a major problem, but both of you would do well to step back and truly listen to one another.
Intellectual interests and/or hobbies are apt to play a significant role in your relationship.
Both of you have Venus conjunct or in hard aspect to Neptune:
Both of you have very idealized, romanticized images of love, and love-yearnings which no ordinary mortal can fully satisfy. Fantasies of the perfect lover or true “soul mate” often color your attitudes towards the people in your lives, and you both are apt to have experienced some disillusionment and disappointment in trying to live out these dreams. You perhaps see only what you wish to see when it comes to other people, particularly those you are romantically attracted to. You may find that real human beings do not want to be put on a pedestal and adored, but accepted with all of their limitations. You may believe self-sacrifice and love are synonymous – with disastrous effects!
Both of you are attracted to people who have an angelic, unearthly quality, people who are highly artistic, very sensitive, or who are spiritually inclined. You may long for someone who is unattainable to you, in part to avoid having a concrete relationship with anyone! Both of you tend to have phantom loves – people you dream about but never actualize a relationship with.
At best, the two of you could share your great love of beauty and your devotion to the Beauty or Divinity inside each person. A common spiritual path may well be the “glue” – or at least an important part of it – in this relationship.
Mercury & Uranus hard or conj for Tori, soft for Dean:
Both of you have inspired minds and are always open to new angles, novel or experimental ideas, alternative approaches. Tori is more of a radical, however, and is frequently impatient and contrary to anything which impedes change and progress. Tori feels compelled to wake people up a bit and doesn’t mind startling or even outraging others from time to time. Dean, on the other hand, integrates new ideas without necessarily rejecting the old and traditional, or offending more conservative people.
While both of you are interested in stimulating fresh ideas and approaches, Dean communicates these ideas with more tact and smoothness – something Tori could learn from Dean.
Mars & Neptune hard or conj for Tori, soft for Dean:
You share a tendency to be discontent with yourselves and your efforts, particularly if there is no imaginative, spiritual, creative, or humanitarian element to your activities. Tori, in particular, is prone to feelings of aimlessness and discouragement unless surrounded with others who also have creative aspirations or higher ideals. Dean, however, is apt to be supportive and encouraging, and at your finest, the two of you can share your dreams with one another.
Saturn & Uranus hard or conj for Dean, soft for Tori:
Dean feels that personal freedom and the need to be a unique individual and true to oneself are severely inhibited by the constraints and limitations imposed by adult life. Blame and resentment of society, authority, or “the system” may create enormous tension and frustration in Dean. Tori, on the other hand, accepts the limits and compromises necessary, and can more easily find a comfortable balance between freedom and obligation. This is something Dean sorely needs and can learn from Tori’s way of being.
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
Dean’s Sun Opposition Tori’s Sun:
Opposites attract! Although the two of you have many basic differences in your personalities (see the beginning of Chapter 1 for a discussion of these differences), you are, nevertheless, attracted to each other and intrigued by each other. This is not a lukewarm relationship! It can easily be inclined to become a love-hate relationship: you love and respect each other when you are able to complement each other, and you hate each other when you fail to understand and appreciate your differences. It is up to the two of you to develop mutual appreciation for your differences rather than antagonize each other.
Tori’s Sun Opposition Dean’s Mercury:
Lively exchanges of ideas are common between the two of you. Fortunately, you understand each other well, but unfortunately you sometimes have opposite opinions and perspectives on an issue. Despite your differences, you work together very well in practical matters, planning, organizing, developing or communicating ideas, and your differing viewpoints are not likely to be a serious problem.
Tori’s Sun Opposition Dean’s Venus:
Sparks fly when you come into contact with one another! Strong feelings of love, attraction, warmth, mutual admiration, and appreciation bring you together, and you are able to express your love feelings openly and fully to one another. You can be great friends and companions as well as lovers.
Tori’s Mercury Opposition Dean’s Neptune:
You are inclined to conversations on imaginative areas like art, theater, music, psychology, and religion. Discussions of very practical and mundane affairs (for example, your annual tax forms) are inclined to be fraught with misunderstandings so strive to be very careful to be clear and precise when discussing important details.
Tori’s Sun Trine Dean’s Uranus:
Playfulness and a zest for newness infuse your relationship. You really spark each other’s imagination and creativity. This quality is especially welcome in a long-term relationship because you will not fall into a lifeless routine. You spur each other to explore, take risks, and develop new creative outlets. You encourage each other’s independence. There is an electric, spontaneous quality between you , and your sexual relationship is lively and exciting as well.
Dean’s Asc. Trine Tori’s Sun:
Tori motivates, encourages, and energizes Dean’s self-expression, and can be very helpful to all of Dean’s projects and activities. When you are together, you both feel more positive, alive, and vital.
Dean’s Moon Sextile Tori’s Moon:
Your domestic life is harmonious and pleasant. You are able to openly share your personal feelings and concerns with each other. You enjoy quiet times together at home, heart-to-heart talks, and making a home together. Your personal tastes and habits are not always similar but you are able to accept these differences and blend them well. Your friendship is close, sincere, and harmonious.
Tori’s Mercury Trine Dean’s Mars:
You inspire each other to refine and clarify your ideas, plans and strategies. You are an effective team in research, writing, or business pursuits. You also help each other to successfully implement a plan or follow through on an idea until it manifests as a successful product or creative work. You also have spirited, feisty debates with one another.
Tori’s Mercury Trine Dean’s Pluto:
Your conversations are deep and probing. You understand each other at a very deep level, and you may find yourselves revealing things about yourself that you have not mentioned to anyone else. You also make a good research team or investigators.
Tori’s Venus Sextile Dean’s Jupiter:
Your relationship enjoys a high level of harmony, good will, and enthusiasm. The two of you invariably have an enjoyable time together, you have many friends, and you enjoy socializing and going out together. Financial and material benefits may also result for you both through this relationship.
Dean’s Mars Square Tori’s Saturn:
In your partnership, Dean is the eager, passionate, active and impulsive one, and Tori frequently puts on the brakes or tries to control, play down, and restrain Dean’s desires and drives. This may be true in your sexual relationship, your approach to achieving goals, or both. Dean is likely to feel very frustrated, angry or discouraged if Tori expresses disapproval or caution too often, and this can be a source of considerable friction between you. Tori feels overwhelmed and envious of Dean’s intensity and assertiveness, but instead of trying to hold Dean down, Tori should confront the fears and inhibitions that Dean’s directness evokes.
Destiny and Final Outcome of Your Relationship
Composite Sun Opposition Mercury:
Yours is an intellectual relationship, among other things. Exchanging thoughts, studying together, sharing information, talking and bantering, turning one another on to new books or ideas, sparking one another’s curiosity and interest in the world – all of these are important aspects of your relationship. A certain detachment and the ability to think about and talk about what is going on between you are also highlighted. Put simply, becoming more conscious or more informed and educated is a significant reason the two of you are drawn together.
Composite Venus Square Neptune:
Romantic illusions and fantasies, erotic imagination and dreams of perfect Love all play a crucial role in your relationship. To avoid being severely disappointed and disillusioned, it would be good to recognize from the start that your partner is not a Goddess or God, is not meant to rescue or save you from your problems, and is, in fact, a lot less perfect that you believe! More likely possibilities, such as pretending to be something that you are not, or trying to rescue you partner from his or her own predicaments, can be equally trouble-producing. Either or both of you are apt to feel you were seduced or lured into the relationship under false pretenses, but probably you simply fooled yourselves!
If you are willing to accept the less than beautiful and ideal aspects of one another, an authentic relationship based on compassion as well as eroticism can evolve. If you can’t do this, the more tragic implications of the phrase “love is blind” will certainly become clear to you both in time.
Composite Jupiter Conjunct Saturn:
Your growth and development as a couple is destined to happen gradually. The longer you are together the greater the “pay off” for both of you. Time is on your side.
Any joint business or projects you undertake together will succeed if you are steady, patient, and prudent, but schemes which promise great rewards with little effort will fail. Don’t anticipate overnight success or instant gratification; these too will disappoint you. Taking small steps toward your shared goals, and keeping at it, is the only way to success for you – at least in practical terms.
Composite Saturn Quincunx Uranus:
As a couple, you will inevitably come up against considerable frustration, limitations, and restrictions on your freedom. Unfortunately one or both of you feels very cramped and stifled by routines established in your way of relating to one another. You may find it difficult to completely let go and/or relax with one another, regardless of whatever positives the two of you have going together. And others may be equally ill-at-ease in your presence when you are together. Not that there is open conflict, necessarily. It’s more chronic and subtle than that, more of an irritable tension, and it may seem that you never quite gel or stabilize. Only if you both give each other much leeway and tolerance, and express your tensions before they become excessive, will any long-lasting harmony develop here.
Composite Moon Conjunct Mars:
Warm, passionate emotional responses will always be a part of your relationship. You arouse a lot of emotion in one another -be it anger, desire, love, or animosity. Heated arguments and letting off steam are probably unavoidable when the two of you get together. However, an honest, direct, naked expression of anger as well as any other emotions you experience can be the basis of real closeness, as long as you don’t let it get out of hand. You are not exactly gentle with one another. Undercurrents of rivalry and competition will also be an ongoing aspect of your bond. Either you will compete against one another, or the two of you will be a hot team in competition with other people.
Together, you act on impulse and emotion, and as a couple you have a lot of vitality and courage. You may be involved in more battles (with yourselves or the outside world) than you care to be, though.
Composite Jupiter Quincunx Uranus:
Humor, playfulness, mischievous fun, unexpected gifts, serendipitous events and sudden twists of fate (mostly for the good) abound in this relationship. When the two of you are together, things often go awry or turn out differently than planned, but frequently this works out to your benefit. Keeping an open mind and a sense of comedy will be essential. Flexibility and adaptability will also.
The two of you goad each other to be impulsive, careless, or irresponsible and this, too, will play a part in your relationship.
Other Themes in Your Relationship
Dean’s Sun in Tori’s 9th house:
Tori takes a great interest in Dean’s philosophical or religious outlook on life, and Dean often assumes the role of teacher or mentor towards Tori.
Tori’s Sun in Dean’s 4th house:
Tori is able to confide in Dean, and your relationship is a very personal, intimate one. Dean brings out Tori’s softer side. You are drawn to live together and share a home together.
Dean’s Moon in Tori’s 11th house:
You share a light-hearted, outgoing, friendly relationship. Even if your relationship becomes very close and intimate, you maintain a reasonable degree of objectivity about each other. The friendly feeling of camaraderie that you share makes your relationship enjoyable and fun, although Tori may feel that you don’t take enough time to share inner feelings and deeper concerns.
Tori’s Moon in Dean’s 9th house:
Tori is very supportive and sympathetic towards Dean’s aspirations, religious beliefs, political perspective, and overall outlook on life. Dean appreciates Tori’s encouragement but may wish that Tori also took a greater interest in Dean’s personal feelings and more immediate, personal problems and concerns.
Dean’s Mercury in Tori’s 9th house:
Dean’s more philosophical or religious side is brought out in this relationship, and Dean tends to assume the role of teacher or sage. If Tori sympathizes with Dean’s views or is impressed by Dean’s wisdom, the relationship goes well but if Tori perceives Dean as being foolish or illogical, then a large gap in communication develops.
Tori’s Mercury in Dean’s 3rd house:
The two of you love to chat, and often it requires effort for the two of you to be together without talking, even if there is little to discuss. Try to avoid the tendency to gossip with each other.
Dean’s Venus in Tori’s 9th house:
Tori has a great deal of respect and appreciation for Dean, and may even look up to Dean. If Tori ever feels that Dean’s motives are not sincere or genuine, then the disappointment can be crushing to your relationship.
Tori’s Venus in Dean’s 4th house:
Dean’s deep feelings of love and admiration for Tori are not likely to evaporate over time. Both of you love your times together, especially your shared domestic life.
Dean’s Mars in Tori’s 7th house:
Dean has a “take charge” attitude towards this relationship. Also, Dean comes across very strong, perhaps aggressively, at times. Tori appreciates Dean’s direct, uninhibited approach, but there is a tendency to become combative and competitive with each other at times.
Tori’s Mars in Dean’s 1st house:
Tori comes on strong, almost aggressively to Dean, and this relationship is a lively, dynamic one. Tori spurs Dean to do more and be more. Dean may feel inspired by Tori, but may also feel that Tori is too pushy.
Dean’s Jupiter in Tori’s 6th house:
Dean loves to be of practical service and help to Tori, though possibly reluctant to help out others. Dean takes a great interest in Tori’s health and overall well-being, and helps take care of day-to-day chores.
Tori’s Jupiter in Dean’s 1st house:
Tori puts Dean in an optimistic, fun-loving, outgoing, mood. You like to go out, travel, and have fun together. Tori is also generous towards Dean and freely gives gifts and assistance to Dean. You enjoy planning and scheming together and sometimes you get a bit overly optimistic in your shared hopes and dreams.
Dean’s Saturn in Tori’s 1st house:
Dean’s more mature, responsible, reliable side comes out in this relationship. Dean becomes almost paternalistic in this relationship, always being concerned about Tori’s well-being. Dean is also inclined to offer lots of critical advice, at times interfering too much with Tori’s plans and goals. Dean’s “helpful criticism” sometimes sours into moralistic judgments. Dean should be wary of the tendency to control or severely limit Tori’s sense of freedom.
Tori’s Saturn in Dean’s 5th house:
This relationship causes Dean to question personal skills and competence a great deal. Tori feels that Dean is capable of so much more, and is inclined to feel that Dean is wasting valuable talent. Tori would like to see Dean be more serious and less superficial in creative work. Over time, Tori is likely to nag Dean to concentrate more on expressing unused personal talents. Rather than inspire Dean to do more, this may only serve to make Dean feel inadequate and dissatisfied with any accomplishments or progress made. With care and consideration, Tori can, indeed, spur Dean on to greater self-mastery and development, but the process is more delicate than Tori may at first realize. Great care – and unconditional love – is needed on Tori’s part to achieve this.
Dean’s Uranus in Tori’s 7th house:
Dean introduces new social circles to Tori. There are many surprises in store for both of you in this regard, and it is likely that you find many of each other’s friends to be a bit difficult to feel comfortable around. Tori, in particular, is likely to find that social life changes a lot through this relationship. Dean can sometimes even be disruptive and disturbing to Tori’s friendships, which could make Tori feel it necessary to choose between Dean and friends, which would be upsetting to your whole relationship. Positively, Dean will introduce fresh perspectives, enthusiasm and inspiration to Tori’s social life.
Tori’s Uranus in Dean’s 8th house:
Your courtship undoubtedly took many unusual twists and turns. The attraction between you is powerful, and sometimes the “urge to merge” is almost irresistible. Sexual activity and love-making probably began very early in the relationship. Also, the way you jointly handle finances and investments is likely to take some unusual turns and the two of you may, for example, invest in some risky ventures. Also, if you marry and later divorce, both of you are likely to be surprised by the manner in which you agree to divide your joint resources.
Dean’s Neptune in Tori’s 9th house:
There is a very tolerant, open-minded quality to your relationship, and both of you find that you put each other in an open-minded frame of mind. You enjoy exploring new ideas and viewpoints and you inspire each other’s imagination. You enjoy planning and scheming on a big scale together, but be wary of projecting your fantasies on situations and expecting too much from your plans. Avoid joint wild speculations and gambling.
Tori’s Neptune in Dean’s 10th house:
Tori tends to have idealistic notions of what Dean can achieve in a worldly sense, and consequently Tori is likely to encourage Dean to pursue dreams without compromise. Dean needs to be careful not to lose sight of the practical details that are needed to meet these goals.
Dean’s Pluto in Tori’s 7th house:
Dean is a very interesting, intriguing, and perhaps even mysterious person to Tori. There is a strong magnetic attraction between you. You enjoy the intensity of the energy exchange between you, and you may also enjoy competing (in sports or other activities) with each other.
Tori’s Pluto in Dean’s 8th house:
There is a powerful magnetism between you, and probably a strong sexual attraction as well. If romantic attraction is strong, you may go through periods of feeling compulsive and obsessive about each other. The emotions involved are complex, however, and the bond between you, while strong, is not necessarily harmonious.
Tori’s Sun Opposition Dean’s Neptune:
You see each other in idealized or romanticized terms and often fail to see each other realistically. You also evoke sympathy, self-sacrifice, and higher ideals from each other, but again there is a strong tendency to be unrealistic in your perceptions and expectations of each other. Bitter disappointments and a loss of trust and confidence in one another can arise. To prevent this from happening, you both must strive be scrupulously honest with each other, and refrain from “playing games”, exaggerating or hiding things from one another. If handled positively, this astrological influence can inspire higher ideals and altruism in both of you.
Tori’s Sun Trine Dean’s Mars:
Successful cooperation in achieving goals and accomplishing tasks is highlighted. You make an excellent working team and you are able to assist each other in achieving specific, concrete goals. The sexual attraction between you is also very strong.
Tori’s Sun Sextile Dean’s Saturn:
There is a deep sense of mutual commitment and dedication that keeps the two of you together, even when you face difficult times. Dean is very dedicated and loyal to Tori, sincerely interested in being responsible to Tori, and willing to make sacrifices when necessary. The two of you work well together on practical matters and business affairs. If you marry, you will find that you can rely on each other to be helpful and responsible.
Dean’s Asc. Trine Tori’s Pluto:
Tori is “the power behind the throne” when it comes to Dean’s ambitions and aspirations, or Tori may set the agenda with Dean carrying out Tori’s will and desires. Dean’s confidence, personal effectiveness, and social influence is greatly enhanced by Tori’s presence and encouragement.
Dean’s Moon Square Tori’s Uranus:
Although there is a great deal of fascination, curiosity, and attraction between you, there is also a lack of stability and peace. You react to each other very impulsively. Your feelings for each other blow hot and cold. It may seem like you are either making love or arguing with each other, going from one extreme to another. This relationship could easily turn into a love/hate relationship, where you simultaneously feel irresistibly drawn to each other, but you also irritate each other and make each other feel very uncomfortable. To make this relationship work, you both must be very flexible, tolerant of shortcomings in each other, adaptable to the constant changes and upsets, and enjoy excitement, novelty, and surprises. In this relationship there is never a dull moment!
Dean’s Moon Trine Tori’s Mercury:
You enjoy long talks and you feel very much at home with each other. You are able to openly share your feelings about various issues, whether they are political, religious, or personal in nature. You will find that as you spend more time together, your tastes, interests, hobbies, and activities tend to blend together harmoniously. The feeling of friendship and inner understanding of each other is very satisfying and of a very positive nature.
Tori’s Mercury Trine Dean’s Uranus:
Your conversations are spirited and often exhilarating. You spark each other to view situations in a new light and you inspire creative, original, inventive ideas. This relationship inspires creativity and originality, and a fresh attitude towards life – and you should share a very interesting life together.
Dean’s Jupiter Trine Tori’s Neptune:
There is a strong psychic or spiritual connection between you, a sympathetic rapport that enables you both to be especially generous, tolerant, and accepting of one another. Your ideals and beliefs are in harmony. Your faith, optimism, imagination and hopes and plans for the future are stimulated by being together. However, you may simply dream, speculate, or spin fantasies rather than actually do anything concrete. You tend to be enjoyably lazy and indulgent together.
Dean’s Saturn Square Tori’s Saturn:
No matter how fulfilling your life together is in some ways, there are times when you wonder why you are with this person, and if the frustrations and difficulties are worth it. There is a great deal of underlying friction and you may feel that your partner brings out the worst in you, stirring up fears, worries, and insecurities that you would rather forget.
Your relationship can be a very fruitful one if self-knowledge and inner development are your aims, for you will be confronted with your hidden, darker side. Instead of blaming your partner for the unhappiness you feel, try to see how your own attitudes and limitations contribute to the situation. You will grow in personal strength and integrity as you do this. However, there will still be times when you want “relief”, and may need to take a break from one another on a regular basis. If this cannot be arranged, you are likely to feel very stifled, restricted, discouraged, disapproved of, or suffocated a good deal of the time.
Tori’s Saturn Square Dean’s Pluto:
In addition to the harmony and fulfillment you may both experience together, there is a difficult, darker side to your relationship as well. Your deepest fears or character defects are brought to the fore, and you must confront the very things you have avoided or tried to hide about yourself in the past. This can be a very painful process and you may begin to resent, try to control, or suppress your partner. You are much too serious and heavy with one another at times, and must be sure that you give equal time to play and to appreciation of the positives. Otherwise, over time, this relationship will weigh both of you down.