The Compatibility Report for
Birth Data for Justin:
1 March 1994
Birth Data for Selena:
22 July 1992
Grand Prairie, Texas
This Lovers Report is divided into 4 chapters.
Chapter 1 compares your temperaments and personalities. The issues described in Chapter 1 become particularly powerful if you are married or live together. Idiosyncrasies or quirks in another person’s personality do not bother us as much if our relationship is a casual one. For example, if one person is neat and tidy and the other is sloppy, this is more likely to become a concern if you are married than if you are only seeing each other occasionally.
Pay close attention to the issues described in Chapter 2 because these are the most important themes in your relationship. For example, if themes of romance and sexual attraction are emphasized, then you can count on this relationship being a passionate one. However, if romance and sexuality are hardly mentioned at all, then this relationship will not be a passionate one. Note also that the material in Chapter 2 is presented roughly in order of importance, so that the material presented at the beginning of Chapter 2 is the most powerful.
Chapter 4 describes issues in your relationship of less importance than those presented in Chapter 2. Chapter 3 describes situations and circumstances that arise if you have a close, long-lasting relationship.
If a statement appears to contradict another statement, then your roles are likely to alternate. For example, a statement that Justin is more aggressive than Selena, and another statement that Selena is more aggressive than Justin, means that you alternate roles, with Justin sometimes being the leader and Selena being the follower, and sometimes just the opposite. Also, read the statements carefully, as it is likely that a careful reading will reveal different kinds of aggressiveness or areas in which the aggressiveness is likely to express itself.
To make the most of this report, combine this astrological analysis with other things that you know about each other. For example, we have assumed that you are opposite-sexed (assuming that both of you are heterosexual, otherwise same-sexed). Physical attractiveness, age, religion, education, family and cultural background will affect your relationship as well. The material in Chapters 2, 3, and 4 of this report describes the magnetism between you, but does not describe your individual natures. For example, suppose that Chapter 2 makes little mention of romance and sexuality, but the Natal Reports for each of you indicate that each of you has extremely strong romantic and sexual desires. In this case, marriage is not likely to be successful! However, if romance and sexuality are not important to either of you, then the lack of passion in your relationship is not likely to be as much of a stumbling block.
Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of
the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of
students of astrology, these positions, along with other
technical information, are listed below:
Positions and Data for Justin:
Sun position is 10 deg. 25 min. of Pisces
Moon position is 24 deg. 38 min. of Libra
Mercury position is 23 deg. 32 min. of Aquarius
Venus position is 20 deg. 50 min. of Pisces
Mars position is 25 deg. 07 min. of Aquarius
Jupiter position is 14 deg. 39 min. of Scorpio
Saturn position is 3 deg. 45 min. of Pisces
Uranus position is 24 deg. 52 min. of Capricorn
Neptune position is 22 deg. 32 min. of Capricorn
Pluto position is 28 deg. 04 min. of Scorpio
Asc. position is 29 deg. 02 min. of Scorpio
MC position is 15 deg. 25 min. of Virgo
2nd cusp position is 0 deg. 38 min. of Capricorn
3rd cusp position is 8 deg. 12 min. of Aquarius
5th cusp position is 15 deg. 53 min. of Aries
6th cusp position is 9 deg. 34 min. of Taurus
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 05:56:00
Time Zone: 5 hours West. Lat & Long: 42 N 59 81 W 14
Positions and Data for Selena:
Sun position is 29 deg. 56 min. of Cancer
Moon position is 25 deg. 08 min. of Aries
Mercury position is 17 deg. 13 min. of Leo
Venus position is 10 deg. 37 min. of Leo
Mars position is 27 deg. 04 min. of Taurus
Jupiter position is 13 deg. 21 min. of Virgo
Saturn position is 16 deg. 18 min. of Aquarius
Uranus position is 15 deg. 27 min. of Capricorn
Neptune position is 17 deg. 14 min. of Capricorn
Pluto position is 20 deg. 10 min. of Scorpio
Asc. position is 8 deg. 05 min. of Leo
MC position is 0 deg. 21 min. of Taurus
2nd cusp position is 1 deg. 03 min. of Virgo
3rd cusp position is 28 deg. 15 min. of Virgo
5th cusp position is 4 deg. 59 min. of Sagittarius
6th cusp position is 8 deg. 11 min. of Capricorn
Tropical/PLACIDUS Daylight Savings Time observed. GMT: 12:19:00
Time Zone: 6 hours West. Lat & Long: 32 N 44 45 96 W 59 51
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
Justin’s Sun in Pisces and Selena’s Sun in Cancer:
There is a tremendous flow of feeling, sympathy, and emotional rapport between you, and you feel that your partner understands and empathizes with you in a way few others do. Both of you are sensitive, intuitive, receptive, and compassionate people, easily moved by emotional appeals or needs of others. A deep mutual appreciation of music and the arts is also likely.
The differences between you are: Justin’s sympathies are more broad and universal than Selena’s, who is more concerned with family or others who are personally dear to Selena. “Our family” or “our circle” matters more to Selena than to Justin, who treats friends and strangers more equally. Justin can be a little lax when it comes to remembering significant personal dates, like anniversaries or birthdays, whereas Selena never is. Fortunately this difference is rather minor and unlikely to be much of problem between you.
Justin’s Moon in Libra and Selena’s Moon in Aries:
The two of you are opposites in many ways and you are each drawn to the qualities in your partner that you lack.
Justin doesn’t really feel complete without a love partner, and instinctively knows how to share, blend with, and harmonize with people, while Selena is more self-reliant and assertive, and often rather inconsiderate of others’ needs and desires. Selena instinctively takes charge and tends to run the show, while Justin is the conciliator and compromiser in your relationship.
Justin depends a great deal on others’ approval, often lacks a strong sense of self or personal direction, and may simply go along with Selena much of the time, for Selena has stronger preferences and less willingness to accommodate a partner’s wishes. Justin wants togetherness, while Selena needs time to go off alone and be a free agent sometimes. Also, Selena is rather impulsive and volatile, and is prone to outbursts of temper, while Justin is more rational and often avoids unpleasant emotions, especially anger. Therefore, Justin may appear to be the nice, likeable “good guy” in the relationship, while Selena is cast in the role of the trouble maker.
When personal problems arise, Justin wants to discuss them with a counselor or friend, is open to suggestions and others’ opinions, and wants to negotiate a fair, equitable solution. Selena is less likely to seek outside help and may have little patience for talking and airing the problem, unless some clear, concrete change results.
The two of you will have to do considerable adjusting in order to live with these differences between you, even if other astrological aspects indicate harmony and compatibility.
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
Justin’s Sun Opposition Selena’s Jupiter:
There is a great deal of enthusiasm and optimism in your relationship. You inspire each other to expand your horizons, explore new possibilities, and improve your financial and social situation. You have a lot of good will towards each other, and also allow each other a lot of freedom. You do not smother each other. You may, however, engage in risky speculations together that are driven more by optimism and hopefulness than by well thought out plans, and consequently fall far short of your expectations. Overall, however, this astrological influence is a positive one of good will and optimism.
Justin’s Asc. Opposition Selena’s Mars:
The attraction between you is very powerful and your partnership is a very close and intense one. You enjoy working together and it is also likely that you engage in competitive sports or games with each other. A negative possibility is that one of you would attempt to dominate the other, causing anger and resentment in the other. You antagonize one another at times by emphasizing your individual differences and your own needs, rather than trying to cooperate or harmonize with one another. You are able to get issues out in the open, but direct confrontation can degenerate into attack if you are not careful. Be gentler with each other!
Justin’s Moon Opposition Selena’s Moon:
Although many of your personal tastes and habits are different, they rarely conflict with each other. Both of you are able to accept each other’s personal habits and idiosyncrasies, without feeling like you must force each other to fit your preconceived notions of what your partner should be like. You have a strong sense of acceptance and belonging together.
Selena’s Mars Opposition Justin’s Pluto:
This relationship is intense and can blow hot or cold, and in fact, is likely to go through extremes of happiness and fulfillment as well as frustration and conflict. At times you may feel like adversaries. You can end up in bitter power struggles with each other, and feel like your partner is trying to manipulate you. To prevent these problems, you must be able to accept differences of opinion and differing goals and ambitions. Justin, especially, must avoid dominating or undermining Selena’s efforts. You can drive one another to extremes.
Selena’s Sun Trine Justin’s Pluto:
Justin helps Selena achieve personal goals, activate Selena’s latent talents and strengths, and encourages and promotes Selena’s creative work and endeavors. You can be a very successful duo. However, Justin can be more driving and ambitious for Selena than Selena is, like the “stage mother” who pushes her child to shine and to excel even when it is not the child’s own aspiration. Justin can have a profound influence on Selena, most likely for the good, but possibly not. Subtle manipulation and domination on Justin’s part should be avoided.
Justin’s Asc. Trine Selena’s Sun:
Selena motivates, encourages, and energizes Justin’s self-expression, and can be very helpful to all of Justin’s projects and activities. When you are together, you both feel more positive, alive, and vital.
Selena’s Moon Square Justin’s Uranus:
Although there is a great deal of fascination, curiosity, and attraction between you, there is also a lack of stability and peace. You react to each other very impulsively. Your feelings for each other blow hot and cold. It may seem like you are either making love or arguing with each other, going from one extreme to another. This relationship could easily turn into a love/hate relationship, where you simultaneously feel irresistibly drawn to each other, but you also irritate each other and make each other feel very uncomfortable. To make this relationship work, you both must be very flexible, tolerant of shortcomings in each other, adaptable to the constant changes and upsets, and enjoy excitement, novelty, and surprises. In this relationship there is never a dull moment!
Selena’s Moon Square Justin’s Neptune:
You spark each other’s imagination and fantasies, but the tendency to deceive each other is also very strong. You fascinate and intrigue each other, clouding your vision and causing you to often misunderstand each other. For example, you tend to project fantasies and hopes on each other – this is not necessarily bad because these fantasies can become a rich source for imaginative, inspiring works of art or music. Do not rush into a serious relationship too quickly, though, because you need time to make sure that you haven’t got caught up in a romantic, idealistic vision of each other, from which you will later wake. If either of you has a major problem of a psychological, alcohol-related, or drug-related nature, this relationship can become a partnership in dissolute, self-destructive, negative habits.
Selena’s Moon Sextile Justin’s Mars:
You arouse one another’s feelings and desires, and both of you feel it is easy to express what you want from your partner in an open, direct way. You enjoy sports, active play, or other vigorous physical activities together.
Selena’s Mercury Square Justin’s Jupiter:
This relationship has a marked effect on the overall attitudes and beliefs of both of you, but particularly of Selena. You challenge each other’s religious, political, and philosophical beliefs. You may experience differences of opinion that are difficult to reconcile. You are also inclined to take risks together and speculate, sometimes foolishly.
Justin’s Venus Trine Selena’s Pluto:
The romantic love and sexual attraction for each other is very compelling and deep. You wield a powerful, charismatic influence on each other and your love affair is a powerful one. This could be one of the most fulfilling, all-consuming relationships of your life!
Justin’s Mars Square Selena’s Mars:
You periodically find that you frustrate each other when attempting to work jointly on a project. The problem arises because your approach to work is very different. Very often you will find that you must work on a project separately because successful joint effort is impossible. Fighting, provoking, driving, or pushing one another can be problems for you. There is a great deal of irritation and stress between you at times. At least there is no lack of fire in your relationship!
Selena’s Mars Trine Justin’s Uranus:
An electric, exciting quality infuses your relationship and you encourage one another to be bold, confident, and assertive. Vigorous physical activities, from love-making to sports, are good outlets for the vital dynamic energy you generate together.
Destiny and Final Outcome of Your Relationship
Composite Sun Conjunct Mercury:
Yours is an intellectual relationship, among other things. Exchanging thoughts, studying together, sharing information, talking and bantering, turning one another on to new books or ideas, sparking one another’s curiosity and interest in the world – all of these are important aspects of your relationship. A certain detachment and the ability to think about and talk about what is going on between you are also highlighted. Put simply, becoming more conscious or more informed and educated is a significant reason the two of you are drawn together.
Composite Sun Trine Uranus:
Being together will bring many changes into your lives. You’ll become more progressive, more open to experimentation and new ideas, more adventurous and less conventional. You’ll foster one another’s freedom and autonomy, and develop a relationship that may look odd to other people, but which truly fits your own needs and authentic selves. What may have seemed radical or too far out to you, now will become quite easy for you to accept.
The more the two of you cooperate with the impulse toward newness and “nowness” (letting go of the need to maintain the familiar, or cling to preconceived expectations), the better and more smooth your relationship will be. One of the purposes of the two of you coming together is to open you both to new ways of expressing yourselves and understanding the world.
Composite Sun Trine Neptune:
Unselfishness, tolerance, and forgiveness flow readily between you, helping to ease and ameliorate any problems you face together. Your relationship has a strong idealistic and platonic quality. Even if you are involved sexually, the focus with the two of you is not primarily physical, but subtle, soulful, and spiritual in nature. You have high standards for your friendship and may expect yourselves or one another to be the Perfect Friend, all-giving and always impeccable in your dealings with each other. For the most part you both try to live up to these lofty images, and to not taint your relationship with selfish or mundane considerations.
The psychic tie is strong between you, too. You may experience an unusual ability to “read” one another, send messages to one another telepathically, and so on. Any interest you have in the metaphysical or imaginative arts will be highlighted, and become an important focus in your relationship.
Composite Moon Quincunx Saturn:
Your senses of what’s okay, what is and isn’t acceptable, what proper boundaries are, are very different on certain issues, especially regarding family matters. One of you may want more clear-cut boundaries and less interference from in-laws or children, while the other feels that a choice between “my lover” and “my family” must be made.
A disregard or disrespect (or simply a disinterest) for one another’s family, heritage, or traditions is also a possibility, and this can be a divisive issue between you.
In some significant way, severing old attachments will be necessary in order to develop a closeness with one another. If this doesn’t happen, great gaps may exist and grow between you.
Composite Moon Trine Pluto:
Yours is destined to be a profound emotional union. There is a compelling, irresistible, intense desire to know one another deeply, and to be together.
If you are seeking a light, casual relationship just for fun and good times, you may want to run away from this one – if you can! Inevitably, you will have powerful feelings of attachment, even jealous possessiveness, toward one another. This needn’t be troubling though. Mostly it’s just a testament to your strong bond.
If either or both of you tends to be too rational and intellectual, your relationship with one another will remedy that! You’ll share deeper feelings and become much more open to your own inner emotional life through being together. In fact, you may well have come together after one or both of you suffered a significant loss or trauma, and were thus much more aware of your heart and feelings and those deeper concerns that crisis forces upon us. One of the purposes of your relationship is to experience the depths of which you are capable, with another person.
Composite Mercury Trine Uranus:
Experimenting with new ideas and innovative or unconventional approaches, is part of your purpose together. As a couple, you could teach or in other ways disseminate ideas which are advanced, state-of-the-art, highly original, or “alternative”.
The intellectual atmosphere between you is lively and inspiring, and no matter what else is happening in your relationship, you are good for one another in this way.
Composite Mercury Trine Neptune:
The two of you as a couple will be strongly influenced be spiritual teachings, the joint pursuit of inner development, or a combined interest in imagery, poetry, art, and the imaginative life of the mind.
You will be unusually telepathic with one another, and will almost immediately be able to convey your thoughts to one another non-verbally. On a mental level anyway, you blend together very will.
Idealism and trying to view situations from a higher, more encompassing perspective are emphasized when you are together, and a spiritual understanding will be easy for the two of you to achieve.
You are destined to be involved with learning about the subtle, intangible forces in life, the effects of color, music, artistic images, subtle healing energies, or prayer. Teaching or otherwise disseminating these ideas may well be a function of your relationship.
Composite Saturn Square Pluto:
One or both of you will undoubtedly feel extremely limited, imprisoned, or compromised in this relationship at some time, and it may seem like your partner is the jailer, purposefully holding you down, or in some way the source of your misery.
On the other hand, it may be outside circumstances and seemingly random events which are oppressive, difficult, and burdensome. These situations will demand great sacrifices, as well as tenacity, determination, and endurance to overcome.
Clearly this is not an altogether sweet or light relationship. You’ll be confronted with all of your personal demons, those things you fear the most. If you get through it, the two of you will have forged a powerful bond. If you blame the other person for these problems, losses, deprivations, or your lack of freedom, there will be increasing distance and coldness between you.
Composite Uranus Conjunct Neptune:
The two of you will share a radical, revolutionary idealism. Dreams of a blissful utopia, or at least a new and better world, infuse your relationship with inspiration. However, unless other factors give stability and balance, you will be highly unrealistic and extremely unstable as a couple.
Composite Sun Opposition Pluto:
The two of you affect one another profoundly, and will trigger energies and emotions in one another that you may never have realized you were capable of. There may be a love-hate or attraction-repulsion between the two of you, because one of the impulses you evoke in one another is a desire to dominate. Overt power struggles as well as subtle, behind-the-scenes manipulations may undermine your bond. Also, you can feel compelled to know everything about the other and could invade one another’s privacy or try to spy into one another’s secrets. To be successful as a team, you must respect the other as an equal. Unfortunately, there is apt to be a decidedly unequal balance of power between you. If you are very conscious and respectful of one another, however, you may be able to avoid the more severe imbalances that can cause real trouble. If one of you misuses power against the other, expect a backlash.
This is anything but a superficial relationship. The positive aspect of all of this is that you will come to know each other extremely thoroughly, and a bond will be forged that will not easily be broken.
There is also a fated, unavoidable, “meant to be” quality to your connection. Circumstances beyond your control may have forced you together.
Composite Moon Opposition Uranus:
In this relationship, neither of you will ever feel completely settled, secure, and certain. Just when you feel a reliable pattern has been established, it is bound to change. You may feel that the two of you are constantly in flux, constantly in transition. Whether this is disturbing or exciting to you will depend upon your individual temperaments and how willing you are to live with a certain amount of insecurity and unpredictability.
Yours is destined to be a untraditional relationship; the usual rules and expectations won’t apply. Your world may be turned topsy-turvy by one another. Experimenting with alternative lifestyles or “open”, non-exclusive relationships, or a radical departure from the ways you were brought up, is likely. “Leaving the familiar” is a phrase that is a theme here.
If you crave excitement and living totally in the present appeals to you, being with one another may be just the thing for you.
Composite Mercury Opposition Pluto:
Your conversations will reveal to both of you aspects of yourselves that have been hidden – either purposely concealed or long ago denied and buried. Without even trying, the two of you will make the other confront those underlying assumptions, unquestioned beliefs, and ways of thinking which you normally would take for granted. You also find yourselves divulging information, or questioning things which until now you were content to let lie.
Mysteries, secrets, investigating the underside of any issue – these will be a significant part of your relationship. Whether or not you are willing to see and consciously acknowledge some of these things will determine how well you two get along. Part of the purpose of your relationship is to bring to light and conscious understanding those parts of your lives that have not been examined before. For the well-being of both of you, make sure that you do not use the knowledge and information you have of one another as a tool to control or manipulate each other. Especially do not abuse your awareness of the other’s psychological weaknesses and vulnerabilities.
Composite Mars Opposition Jupiter:
Together you will take the kind of risks in life that neither of you may have dreamed of doing individually. You encourage, invigorate, and spur one another on to greater achievements. Partly through competition and egging one another on, each of you aspires toward goals that may well have seemed out of your reach before you two came together. Even in minor, day-to-day matters there is a positive, we-can-do-it spirit that infuses your relationship.
You will need to be very active together and are prone to get cabin fever, to feel cramped and unhappy together, if you are not tackling challenges or doing something rambunctious. Physical play and adventure are essential ingredients for the health and success of this relationship.
Other Themes in Your Relationship
Justin’s Sun in Selena’s 8th house,
Selena’s Sun in Justin’s 8th house:
There is a magnetic, rather intense attraction between you, and it is very likely that you will go through many intense challenges and emotionally powerful experiences together, even if your relationship is not a permanent one. Bonding is very strong, and there is some tendency to possessiveness and jealousy in this relationship.
Justin’s Moon in Selena’s 3rd house:
There is a natural smoothness and ease with which Justin can express ideas and concern to Selena, which fosters a warm friendship between you.
Selena’s Moon in Justin’s 5th house:
Selena greatly appreciates Justin’s creative interests and provides an encouraging audience for Justin’s personal creative works, whether it be a garden, a culinary delight, home decor, or artistic creation.
Justin’s Mercury in Selena’s 7th house:
Your conversations are lively. It seems that both of you can’t resist a debate with each other. Although you frequently disagree with each, fortunately you enjoy the lively exchange of ideas nevertheless.
Selena’s Mercury in Justin’s 9th house:
Selena’s more philosophical or religious side is brought out in this relationship, and Selena tends to assume the role of teacher or sage. If Justin sympathizes with Selena’s views or is impressed by Selena’s wisdom, the relationship goes well but if Justin perceives Selena as being foolish or illogical, then a large gap in communication develops.
Justin’s Venus in Selena’s 8th house:
Justin stirs Selena’s romantic and sexual feelings. Justin is exciting, almost mysterious to Selena. An intense, but emotionally complex relationship can easily develop.
Selena’s Venus in Justin’s 9th house:
Justin has a great deal of respect and appreciation for Selena, and may even look up to Selena. If Justin ever feels that Selena’s motives are not sincere or genuine, then the disappointment can be crushing to your relationship.
Justin’s Mars in Selena’s 7th house:
Justin has a “take charge” attitude towards this relationship. Also, Justin comes across very strong, perhaps aggressively, at times. Selena appreciates Justin’s direct, uninhibited approach, but there is a tendency to become combative and competitive with each other at times.
Selena’s Mars in Justin’s 6th house:
Selena enjoys performing chores for Justin, and also takes an interest in Justin’s work and health. Selena enjoys assisting Justin in practical ways and the two of you are able to buckle down together and accomplish a great deal.
Justin’s Jupiter in Selena’s 4th house:
The warm and nurturing side of Selena is brought out in this relationship. If the two of you live together, it is likely that you will enjoy a high level of domestic harmony. You enjoy your times at home together and both of you contribute much to making a pleasant home life together.
Selena’s Jupiter in Justin’s 9th house:
There is sufficient variety and expansiveness in this relationship to keep it interesting for a long time. No doubt you enjoy traveling, vacationing, socializing, and going out together, and the rich variety of experiences that you share together enriches your outlook on life and increases your appreciation of many things that you otherwise tend to be unaware of or uninvolved in.
Justin’s Saturn in Selena’s 8th house:
If you are married or live together, you will find that finances and management of resources become a significant issue in your relationship. Justin is likely to be hesitant to freely provide and give as willingly as Selena would like. One of you often wants to keep certain assets owned individually and is unwilling to share them. The problem may be more subtle also, and one of you is likely to feel at times that the other is selfish and unwilling to share, even if you cannot defend your reasons for feeling this way. You are also likely to find that attitudes towards sexuality and love-making are different, and your moods are not always in sync with each other. You may wish your mate were more sensitive, or more aggressive (or less aggressive), more romantic (or less romantic), etc. On the other hand, if both of you are able to avoid the tendency to be selfish at times and withhold feelings, you may find that you are able to overcome old habits of extravagance, poor judgment and lack of discernment in financial matters. Illusions about romance can also be replaced with more realistic views.
Selena’s Saturn in Justin’s 3rd house:
Selena has a nasty habit of correcting Justin. Selena sometimes gets into the mode of being Justin’s “editor”; making false assumptions, correcting logical inconsistencies, and interrupting Justin in the middle of a sentence in order to point out a flaw in the argument. Selena may not have this tendency with others, but it does happen frequently in your relationship. The positive side of this tendency is that you are often able to communicate in a deeper, more honest fashion, and get to the heart of the matter at hand; the “editing” is sometimes successful, and helps to clarify issues. If handled properly, you can be good at solving problems together.
Justin’s Uranus in Selena’s 6th house:
Handling of daily chores and tasks can get very disorganized in your relationship, particularly if you live together or are married. Selena, in particular, may feel that is an endless battle trying to maintain an orderly life. Your daily routines change frequently and you often switch roles. For example, it is likely that sometimes Justin may take care of cooking and cleaning, and then Selena assumes the responsibility, rather than one person always handling the same responsibilities. If you try to force a rigid system, you will find that it is not comfortable for either of you.
Selena’s Uranus in Justin’s 2nd house:
Selena encourages Justin to use more creative, unusual methods for investing, developing financial stability and security. Selena may, for example, encourage Justin to invest in a new enterprise that presents big opportunities but is also risky.
Justin’s Neptune in Selena’s 6th house:
Selena is often disappointed in the way that Justin handles problems and performs various chores and tasks. Selena is likely to feel that Justin is careless or sloppy. You approach many tasks in a very different manner from each other. This is not likely to create any serious problems, and can even add some interesting variety to your lives.
Selena’s Neptune in Justin’s 2nd house:
If you are married, you need to be careful about how you jointly handle your finances. Selena may encourage a joint investment that proves to be unsuccessful. Selena tends to be idealistic and impractical regarding your joint assets.
Justin’s Pluto in Selena’s 4th house:
A lot of powerful emotions come to the surface in this relationship. Your attachment to each other can be very intense, and the possibility of arousing jealousy or hurt feelings is very strong. Unfortunately, both of you may let the feelings boil for quite a long time before expressing them. You need to be honest and open with each other because otherwise a complex knot of feelings can develop between you, developing into a love-hate relationship.
Selena’s Pluto in Justin’s 12th house:
There is a deep emotional and psychic tie between you that may not be apparent in the early stages of your relationship, but over time you begin to work together very closely on matters of very deep, personal concern. Together you uncover a lot of previously hidden problems and limitations stemming from early childhood. You probe any fears, phobias, or guilt that limits your ability to live a happy, fulfilling life.
Selena’s Moon Sextile Justin’s Mercury:
Long, friendly conversations are frequent in your relationship. You are able to openly share your inner feelings and concerns, and very often you may feel that there are very few other people that understand and appreciate you as well; this is true even in the early stages of your relationship. The deep level of mutual understanding and appreciation inclines your friendship to be a long, harmonious one.
Justin’s Mercury Square Selena’s Mars:
The tendency to argumentativeness, verbal abuse, and mutual misunderstanding is very strong so please heed the following advice, especially if your relationship is a permanent one: try to avoid abusive language towards each other, and do not try to coerce the other person to accept your views. You enjoy challenging each other’s ideas, showing the weaknesses, inconsistencies, or superficialities in each other’s reasoning. While the intention is good, the net result can be hurt feelings and anger. Typically there is some truth to each other’s point of view, but a lack of real appreciation and respect for each other’s ideas triggers argumentativeness.
Justin’s Mercury Square Selena’s Pluto:
Your conversations have a deep, probing quality. There is a strong tendency to attempt to coerce your partner to understand your point of view and agree with you. Selena may attempt to dominate Justin’s thinking, or radically alter Justin’s view of things.
Selena’s Venus Square Justin’s Jupiter:
You enjoy laughing, having fun, socializing, and going out together. You are great pals, but the relationship may not be serious enough to warrant a lasting commitment to each other. Consequently you both may decide to not marry even though you may love each other very much. If you do marry, you will allow each other a great deal of freedom, but you are likely to disagree on how to handle finances, budgeting, and investments.
Justin’s Mars Square Selena’s Pluto:
You inspire, inflame, vitalize, and energize one another and you can accomplish much together, but you can easily become overly zealous, even fanatical, in your pursuits. It is also likely that your objectives will sometimes be different and you will feel at cross-purposes with each other. You often end up in power struggles, being very competitive with each other, and trying to manipulate or dominate one another. Selena, especially, can override or undermine Justin’s efforts.
Sexual attraction is very strong, but as with other things, one of you is likely to come on too strong to the other and this may be offensive to your partner. There is a driving, compelling, somewhat impersonal quality to your love-making at times.
Selena’s Mars Trine Justin’s Neptune:
You enjoy watching movies, reading novels, discussing music and the arts, and pursuing religious or metaphysical areas together. You work well together in any area that involves a strong imaginative element. The spiritual bond between you is strong, and as you spend time together, your ideals and your sense of purpose in life becomes more refined and intertwined.
Justin’s Jupiter Square Selena’s Saturn:
Selena often limits, burdens, or frustrates Justin without intending to or realizing it. There is a conflict here between Selena’s needs for security, stability, and order versus Justin’s desire for freedom, mobility, and expansiveness. How much, and in what ways, you spend money is probably a particularly thorny issue for you. Selena is more careful and restrictive or disapproving of Justin’s more relaxed, extravagant, or liberal approach.
Also, Selena often seeks to control or dominate Justin, and Justin may even take a subordinate role in the relationship for a time, accepting Selena’s “discipline”. Over time, however, Justin may find Selena’s subtle (or not so subtle!) criticism or constraints to be devitalizing and draining. And Justin, on the other hand, can make Selena feel like a perpetual wet blanket or miser.
Working together or going into business as equal partners is unlikely to work out well for you. It’s best if you can respect one another’s differing approaches and not seek to impose your own values or styles on one another.
Justin’s Jupiter Sextile Selena’s Jupiter:
You greatly enjoy one another’s companionship for you both feel you can do wonderful things together and you foster a positive sense of confidence, enthusiasm, and optimism in one another. You often help each other to get a larger perspective on problems or important personal matters, and to see options and possibilities that you hadn’t considered before. There is also much humor and playful give and take between you which relieves you of a too narrow or overly rigid way of seeing your situation.
This is a mutually beneficial relationship and you tend to feel and to be “lucky” together. You may also be overly confident, even foolhardy with each other at times.
Justin’s Jupiter Sextile Selena’s Uranus:
You encourage one another to be free, to loosen up and let go, and there is a lively, exuberant playfulness between you. You will have a lot of fun and adventures together! By following your intuition and spontaneous impulses, you are likely to be unusually lucky together also.