The Compatibility Report for
Birth Data for Jay:
29 April 1983
Santa Claus, Indiana
Birth Data for Kristin:
5 January 1987
This Lovers Report is divided into 4 chapters.
Chapter 1 compares your temperaments and personalities. The issues described in Chapter 1 become particularly powerful if you are married or live together. Idiosyncrasies or quirks in another person’s personality do not bother us as much if our relationship is a casual one. For example, if one person is neat and tidy and the other is sloppy, this is more likely to become a concern if you are married than if you are only seeing each other occasionally.
Pay close attention to the issues described in Chapter 2 because these are the most important themes in your relationship. For example, if themes of romance and sexual attraction are emphasized, then you can count on this relationship being a passionate one. However, if romance and sexuality are hardly mentioned at all, then this relationship will not be a passionate one. Note also that the material in Chapter 2 is presented roughly in order of importance, so that the material presented at the beginning of Chapter 2 is the most powerful.
Chapter 4 describes issues in your relationship of less importance than those presented in Chapter 2. Chapter 3 describes situations and circumstances that arise if you have a close, long-lasting relationship.
If a statement appears to contradict another statement, then your roles are likely to alternate. For example, a statement that Jay is more aggressive than Kristin, and another statement that Kristin is more aggressive than Jay, means that you alternate roles, with Jay sometimes being the leader and Kristin being the follower, and sometimes just the opposite. Also, read the statements carefully, as it is likely that a careful reading will reveal different kinds of aggressiveness or areas in which the aggressiveness is likely to express itself.
To make the most of this report, combine this astrological analysis with other things that you know about each other. For example, we have assumed that you are opposite-sexed (assuming that both of you are heterosexual, otherwise same-sexed). Physical attractiveness, age, religion, education, family and cultural background will affect your relationship as well. The material in Chapters 2, 3, and 4 of this report describes the magnetism between you, but does not describe your individual natures. For example, suppose that Chapter 2 makes little mention of romance and sexuality, but the Natal Reports for each of you indicate that each of you has extremely strong romantic and sexual desires. In this case, marriage is not likely to be successful! However, if romance and sexuality are not important to either of you, then the lack of passion in your relationship is not likely to be as much of a stumbling block.
Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of
the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of
students of astrology, these positions, along with other
technical information, are listed below:
Positions and Data for Jay:
Sun position is 8 deg. 49 min. of Taurus
Moon position is 8 deg. 16 min. of Sagittarius
Mercury position is 25 deg. 22 min. of Taurus
Venus position is 18 deg. 55 min. of Gemini
Mars position is 17 deg. 41 min. of Taurus
Jupiter position is 9 deg. 19 min. of Sagittarius
Saturn position is 0 deg. 31 min. of Scorpio
Uranus position is 8 deg. 15 min. of Sagittarius
Neptune position is 29 deg. 01 min. of Sagittarius
Pluto position is 27 deg. 50 min. of Libra
Asc. position is 7 deg. 49 min. of Leo
MC position is 27 deg. 08 min. of Aries
2nd cusp position is 29 deg. 18 min. of Leo
3rd cusp position is 25 deg. 17 min. of Virgo
5th cusp position is 2 deg. 59 min. of Sagittarius
6th cusp position is 7 deg. 37 min. of Capricorn
Tropical/PLACIDUS Daylight Savings Time observed. GMT: 17:00:00
Time Zone: 6 hours West. Lat & Long: 38 N 07 12 86 W 54 51
Positions and Data for Kristin:
Sun position is 14 deg. 54 min. of Capricorn
Moon position is 1 deg. 11 min. of Aries
Mercury position is 10 deg. 45 min. of Capricorn
Venus position is 28 deg. 27 min. of Scorpio
Mars position is 28 deg. 06 min. of Pisces
Jupiter position is 18 deg. 17 min. of Pisces
Saturn position is 15 deg. 55 min. of Sagittarius
Uranus position is 23 deg. 53 min. of Sagittarius
Neptune position is 5 deg. 52 min. of Capricorn
Pluto position is 9 deg. 34 min. of Scorpio
Asc. position is 24 deg. 45 min. of Aries
MC position is 13 deg. 40 min. of Capricorn
2nd cusp position is 28 deg. 45 min. of Taurus
3rd cusp position is 22 deg. 29 min. of Gemini
5th cusp position is 7 deg. 04 min. of Leo
6th cusp position is 8 deg. 33 min. of Virgo
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 19:00:00
Time Zone: 7 hours West. Lat & Long: 39 N 44 21 104 W 59 03
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
Jay’s Sun in Taurus and Kristin’s Sun in Capricorn:
Both of you are very practical people, with good common sense. Your grounded and realistic approach to issues makes you very compatible philosophically and intellectually. Over time, the two of you may become too complacent and conservative, and focus too much on mundane affairs or narrowly focused mental interests. Take time for sheer fun and enjoyment and do not become too serious.
Jay’s Moon in Sagittarius and Kristin’s Moon in Aries:
Both of you are somewhat uncomfortable with emotional neediness, dependency, and feelings in general. Jay often intellectualizes feelings rather than experiencing them fully and directly, and may filter personal experiences through a philosophical system that regards certain feelings to be “positive” and acceptable, and other feelings to be “negative”, unacceptable, and to be avoided. Kristin may become annoyed with being told how one “should feel” in a given circumstance. In particular, Jay may try to humor or talk Kristin out of Kristin’s anger.
However, there is also much harmony and compatibility between you on an emotional level. Both of you crave personal freedom and a certain degree of independence. Neither of you wants to be completely “owned” by another person. You need respect for your individuality and you will respect one another’s right to make your own decisions, etc.
Also, both of you enjoy vigorous, competitive play or high-spirited intellectual sparring.
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
Jay’s Sun Opposition Kristin’s Pluto:
There is a powerful, inner bond that has drawn you to each other. You draw out each other’s inner feelings, goals, and ambitions, and it seems that any encounter between the two of you becomes a deep, heart-to-heart encounter; this is not a light, frivolous, or superficial relationship! You are fascinated and intrigued by each other, and there is a compelling quality to your interactions.
Jay’s Sun Trine Kristin’s Mercury:
The mental rapport that you two share is a big reason why you enjoy each other’s company and are good friends. Communication is open and harmonious. You work together very well on practical affairs, daily chores, problem-solving, and business activities.
Jay’s Sun Trine Kristin’s Neptune:
The two of you have a strong intuitive understanding of each other, and you inspire each other’s imagination, idealism, and aspirations. You help each other to become clearer about your ideals and religious inclinations, and together you develop a greater sense of meaning and purpose in your lives. You help each other to look beyond the daily problems and issues of your personal lives and focus more on altruistic goals and broader issues.
Kristin’s Sun Trine Jay’s Mars:
Successful cooperation in achieving goals and accomplishing tasks is highlighted. You make an excellent working team and you are able to assist each other in achieving specific, concrete goals. The sexual attraction between you is also very strong.
Jay’s Asc. Square Kristin’s Pluto:
Kristin is a force for considerable benefit or harm in Jay’s life, either greatly enhancing Jay’s personal power and confidence, or seriously undermining it. Kristin forces Jay to examine the hidden motives and intentions behind Jay’s actions, and may bring out some unsavory aspects of Jay’s character or past history.
An intense confrontation of wills, often going on in a subtle, behind-the-scenes way, characterizes your interaction at times. It is very likely that there is much “unfinished business” of an emotional or personal nature which draws the two of you together, and may bind you in a powerful love-hate, “can’t live with him, can’t live without him” relationship.
Kristin’s Moon Square Jay’s Neptune:
You spark each other’s imagination and fantasies, but the tendency to deceive each other is also very strong. You fascinate and intrigue each other, clouding your vision and causing you to often misunderstand each other. For example, you tend to project fantasies and hopes on each other – this is not necessarily bad because these fantasies can become a rich source for imaginative, inspiring works of art or music. Do not rush into a serious relationship too quickly, though, because you need time to make sure that you haven’t got caught up in a romantic, idealistic vision of each other, from which you will later wake. If either of you has a major problem of a psychological, alcohol-related, or drug-related nature, this relationship can become a partnership in dissolute, self-destructive, negative habits.
Jay’s Venus Square Kristin’s Jupiter:
You enjoy laughing, having fun, socializing, and going out together. You are great pals, but the relationship may not be serious enough to warrant a lasting commitment to each other. Consequently you both may decide to not marry even though you may love each other very much. If you do marry, you will allow each other a great deal of freedom, but you are likely to disagree on how to handle finances, budgeting, and investments.
Kristin’s Mars Square Jay’s Neptune:
It is very difficult for the two of you to jointly accomplish practical, mundane tasks. You draw out the silly, childish, imaginative side of each other, and you often will simply not be able to clearly focus on practical tasks. If either of you has a drinking, drug, or psychological problem, it is likely that your relationship will highlight this problem; be wary of the tendency of both of you to over-indulge in these kinds of bad habits.
The sexual aspect of your relationship can be very confusing, for there is a very strong element of fantasy or dreaminess in it. Jay, especially, needs to avoid arousing or leading Kristin on, or sending mixed messages.
Jay’s Mars Sextile Kristin’s Jupiter:
You work together very harmoniously and you have a knack for helping each other discover new approaches to problems and new strategies for reaching goals. You are likely to combine energies in a successful business enterprise or creative undertaking.
Destiny and Final Outcome of Your Relationship
Composite Moon Square Pluto:
When you are together, deep emotions and intense, compelling, irrational energies within both of you come into play. Definitely, if you are together for any length of time, you will both undergo an emotional transformation, a soul cleansing, for being together will dredge up all of your unfinished emotional business and feelings you may not even have believed yourselves capable of. This may feel like a “fatal attraction”, one that is irresistible even if one or both of you wants to run the other way.
A significant part of your purpose in coming together is to clear up and heal the past – old griefs, jealousies, wounds, and unresolved emotions, many of which you may have forgotten about until now!
Certainly, no matter how long this relationship lasts, it will be a profound, intense one. Emotionally it may feel overwhelming at times. If any emotional manipulation, domination, or abuse occurs, you both need to step back and get a clear, objective third party to help you. At times you’re both apt to feel that you’re in over your heads. On the other hand, though you may go through extreme emotions, you can develop an incredibly close bond.
Composite Mercury Square Uranus:
There is an electric, intellectual quality to your relationship. You’ll be continually challenging or upsetting one another’s ways of seeing the world, provoking each other to THINK and to remain mentally alert, active, and awake. One of you is apt to be considerably more liberal, progressive, “radical”, and interested in unconventional or alternative concepts and methods than the other, who finds this both fascinating and unsettling.
When you are together you tend to speak before you really ponder what you are saying, and the intellectual give and take between you can be rather dazzling. You may feel more brilliant and quick-witted with one another than you do singly. However, you will also find one another’s company to be nerve-wracking and not very relaxing a lot of the time.
You are great for one another when it comes to brainstorming, stimulating original thinking and inspiring one another intellectually – and that is at least part of what this relationship is for.
Composite Mars Quincunx Saturn:
Despite whatever joys and blessings this relationship holds for the two of you, it will also entail a lot of hard work. Patience, forbearance, the ability to continue despite obstacles and discouragement, and accepting the necessity of compromise and humility, will all be required of you. Facing the fact that there are some things you simply cannot do, a lessened sense of freedom, and a definite awareness of containment and boundaries are all a part of it. At times, it may all seem too difficult, tedious, and stifling. If either or both of you gives up too much for the other – as is definitely indicated – this can be a source of considerable blame and resentment. But accepting the bitter with the sweet is part of what your relationship is about.
Composite Sun Opposition Venus:
Quite simply, one of your purposes in being together is to create and express beauty, whether this is in the form of a beautiful, loving relationship, or gracious and artful works. There can also be an element of vanity, artifice, or wanting to show-off, the desire to be seen and recognized as a Beautiful Couple, whether or not that’s entirely true. Hiding or downplaying your difficulties and the ugly parts of your relationship may be helpful to a point, but if you try to maintain this image of yourselves as a happy, loving twosome despite your actual conflicts, then deeper troubles may never get attended to. However, whatever friction, dissonance, or ill will develops between you, there will also always be an urge to harmonize, reconcile, and ease your differences, and to create cooperation. It will take a lot for the two of you to ever turn against each other entirely.
Other Themes in Your Relationship
Jay’s Sun in Kristin’s 1st house:
Jay embodies many of the qualities and attributes to which Kristin aspires, and consequently Jay is a very interesting and attractive person to Kristin.
Kristin’s Sun in Jay’s 6th house:
Kristin likes to perform chores and tasks for Jay, and you may sometimes feel like your relationship is more like an employer-employee relationship than a romantic one! This quality tends to be a positive one, though, for you are able to assist each other in very practical ways.
Jay’s Moon in Kristin’s 8th house:
As your relationship develops, a powerfully emotional bonding develops. Your feelings for each other are intense and can also be rather complex. Jealousy is possible and if things go wrong, you can hate each other with the same intensity that you once loved each other. If you marry or pool your resources but later separate from each other, you will have an extremely difficult time disentangling your mutually owned property, and you are likely to argue intensely over proper division of your joint assets.
Kristin’s Moon in Jay’s 9th house:
Kristin is very supportive and sympathetic towards Jay’s aspirations, religious beliefs, political perspective, and overall outlook on life. Jay appreciates Kristin’s encouragement but may wish that Kristin also took a greater interest in Jay’s personal feelings and more immediate, personal problems and concerns.
Jay’s Mercury in Kristin’s 1st house:
Jay is able to talk to Kristin in a very open, candid, uninhibited manner, and Kristin appreciates Jay’s point of view. This, however, can be taken to extremes, and Jay may sometimes try to persuade Kristin to agree with, and follow, a certain point of view.
Kristin’s Mercury in Jay’s 6th house:
You enjoy tackling practical chores together. Kristin, in particular, provides Jay with lots of ideas on how to maintain health, property, and efficiently run daily affairs.
Jay’s Venus in Kristin’s 2nd house:
Jay loves to shower gifts upon Kristin. Unless Jay is very careful with money, Jay is inclined to spend more money than is practical on Kristin.
Kristin’s Venus in Jay’s 4th house:
Jay’s deep feelings of love and admiration for Kristin are not likely to evaporate over time. Both of you love your times together, especially your shared domestic life.
Jay’s Mars in Kristin’s 1st house:
Jay comes on strong, almost aggressively to Kristin, and this relationship is a lively, dynamic one. Jay spurs Kristin to do more and be more. Kristin may feel inspired by Jay, but may also feel that Jay is too pushy.
Kristin’s Mars in Jay’s 9th house:
Kristin challenges Jay’s philosophical viewpoints and religious beliefs. There is the possibility that Kristin will try to force individual views on Jay.
Jay’s Jupiter in Kristin’s 8th house,
Kristin’s Jupiter in Jay’s 8th house:
There is a strong inclination to merge resources, talents, and energies. You tend to pool your resources. This inclination to merge finances, resources, as well as feelings and living space draws you into a very personal, intimate relationship with each other, and there is an inclination to live together and settle down together. If romantic attraction is strong, this is likely to be a strong, solid union.
Jay’s Saturn in Kristin’s 7th house:
Kristin feels that Jay is a person who will be trustworthy, stable, mature, and committed to the relationship, and there is, indeed, a high level of security and stability that can be counted on in this relationship. Both of you feel comfortable making commitments to each other so if romantic attraction is also strong, then there is an inclination towards marriage. However, over time Kristin may also find that Jay is critical of Kristin’s friends and discourages Kristin from participating in many social activities. It is also likely that the two of you will discover that you have different views of what marriage is and what the commitment of marriage entails, and you may find that you have to work hard at structuring your relationship in a manner that is satisfying to both of you. For example, one of you may have more liberal views on marriage and the other be more traditional and old-fashioned.
Kristin’s Saturn in Jay’s 5th house:
This relationship causes Jay to question personal skills and competence a great deal. Kristin feels that Jay is capable of so much more, and is inclined to feel that Jay is wasting valuable talent. Kristin would like to see Jay be more serious and less superficial in creative work. Over time, Kristin is likely to nag Jay to concentrate more on expressing unused personal talents. Rather than inspire Jay to do more, this may only serve to make Jay feel inadequate and dissatisfied with any accomplishments or progress made. With care and consideration, Kristin can, indeed, spur Jay on to greater self-mastery and development, but the process is more delicate than Kristin may at first realize. Great care – and unconditional love – is needed on Kristin’s part to achieve this.
Jay’s Uranus in Kristin’s 8th house:
Your courtship undoubtedly took many unusual twists and turns. The attraction between you is powerful, and sometimes the “urge to merge” is almost irresistible. Sexual activity and love-making probably began very early in the relationship. Also, the way you jointly handle finances and investments is likely to take some unusual turns and the two of you may, for example, invest in some risky ventures. Also, if you marry and later divorce, both of you are likely to be surprised by the manner in which you agree to divide your joint resources.
Kristin’s Uranus in Jay’s 5th house:
There is a strong creative impulse that is triggered when the two of you get together. You are able to create original and unusual works together and you approach daily life together in a very creative way. This enthusiasm and creativity makes life fun and interesting and also adds zest to the romantic attraction between you.
Jay’s Neptune in Kristin’s 9th house:
There is a very tolerant, open-minded quality to your relationship, and both of you find that you put each other in an open-minded frame of mind. You enjoy exploring new ideas and viewpoints and you inspire each other’s imagination. You enjoy planning and scheming on a big scale together, but be wary of projecting your fantasies on situations and expecting too much from your plans. Avoid joint wild speculations and gambling.
Kristin’s Neptune in Jay’s 5th house:
Kristin enjoys acting childish and silly with Jay. You enjoy playing games with each other, and there is also a strong element of fantasy and imagination in your romantic and sexual life.
Jay’s Pluto in Kristin’s 7th house:
Jay is a very interesting, intriguing, and perhaps even mysterious person to Kristin. There is a strong magnetic attraction between you. You enjoy the intensity of the energy exchange between you, and you may also enjoy competing (in sports or other activities) with each other.
Kristin’s Pluto in Jay’s 4th house:
A lot of powerful emotions come to the surface in this relationship. Your attachment to each other can be very intense, and the possibility of arousing jealousy or hurt feelings is very strong. Unfortunately, both of you may let the feelings boil for quite a long time before expressing them. You need to be honest and open with each other because otherwise a complex knot of feelings can develop between you, developing into a love-hate relationship.
Kristin’s Asc. Opposition Jay’s Pluto:
The two of you may have been brought together by forces beyond your control, in a way that feels particularly “karmic” or fated. Certainly, there is an intense, compelling, nearly obsessive quality to your relationship, and it will have a profound impact on your lives and your intimate personal relationships, both present and future. Jay, in particular, may wield considerable power over Kristin, having an almost hypnotic effect, forcing Kristin to be or do whatever Jay wants. Jay must avoid being heavy-handed or too dominating as this will engender enormous resentment in Kristin and turn a friend and lover into an enemy. If you go about your relationship in a fair and conscious way, however, the interaction between you can be very, very deep, intense and unforgettable.
Kristin’s Asc. Trine Jay’s Neptune:
Kristin’s sympathy and charitable impulses are brought out by Jay and there is much mutual tolerance, sensitivity, and good will between you. You help one another in an unselfish way. If Kristin is a driving, ambitious person, Jay can help Kristin relax and let go of minor irritations and petty problems. If Kristin is a more relaxed or passive person, Jay will reinforce those traits.
Jay’s Mercury Opposition Kristin’s Venus:
You enjoy discussing the arts, literature, and people. Your conversations are stimulating, although it is not unusual that you reach opposite conclusions. You may find that one of you (typically Kristin) emphasizes the emotional side of a situation, issue, or problem and the other (typically Jay) is more concerned with the strictly technical or intellectual side.
Jay’s Venus Opposition Kristin’s Saturn:
Emotional distance or coolness, and an inability either to show love, or to feel sufficiently loved and appreciated are problems you are likely to face in this relationship. Jay, in particular, can feel dominated, stifled, or inhibited socially and emotionally by Kristin. There may be other, more positive astrological influences to offset this basically difficult dynamic between the two of you, but even so there are times when you feel lonely and unfulfilled by being together. Kristin must try to avoid being too demanding, possessive, withholding, or controlling towards Jay. Jay needs to be with other friends sometimes, and should go off and do something fun and frivolous once in a while.
Jay’s Venus Opposition Kristin’s Uranus:
This is an unusual relationship! The relationship seems to follows its own, unpredictable course that neither of you can control. At least life isn’t boring! Sexual attraction to each other is aroused suddenly and unpredictably, but then it subsides just as quickly and unexpectedly. If your relationship is a permanent one, you will find that periods of intense sexual attraction come and go in waves, and you both will have to be able to adjust to these unpredictable changes. Kristin, in particular, may be erratic, inconstant, or unreliable toward Jay, perhaps unwilling to make a commitment or to keep promises.