The Compatibility Report for
Birth Data for Dax:
2 January 1975
Birth Data for Kristen:
18 July 1980
Huntington Woods, MI
This Lovers Report is divided into 4 chapters.
Chapter 1 compares your temperaments and personalities. The issues described in Chapter 1 become particularly powerful if you are married or live together. Idiosyncrasies or quirks in another person’s personality do not bother us as much if our relationship is a casual one. For example, if one person is neat and tidy and the other is sloppy, this is more likely to become a concern if you are married than if you are only seeing each other occasionally.
Pay close attention to the issues described in Chapter 2 because these are the most important themes in your relationship. For example, if themes of romance and sexual attraction are emphasized, then you can count on this relationship being a passionate one. However, if romance and sexuality are hardly mentioned at all, then this relationship will not be a passionate one. Note also that the material in Chapter 2 is presented roughly in order of importance, so that the material presented at the beginning of Chapter 2 is the most powerful.
Chapter 4 describes issues in your relationship of less importance than those presented in Chapter 2. Chapter 3 describes situations and circumstances that arise if you have a close, long-lasting relationship.
If a statement appears to contradict another statement, then your roles are likely to alternate. For example, a statement that Dax is more aggressive than Kristen, and another statement that Kristen is more aggressive than Dax, means that you alternate roles, with Dax sometimes being the leader and Kristen being the follower, and sometimes just the opposite. Also, read the statements carefully, as it is likely that a careful reading will reveal different kinds of aggressiveness or areas in which the aggressiveness is likely to express itself.
To make the most of this report, combine this astrological analysis with other things that you know about each other. For example, we have assumed that you are opposite-sexed (assuming that both of you are heterosexual, otherwise same-sexed). Physical attractiveness, age, religion, education, family and cultural background will affect your relationship as well. The material in Chapters 2, 3, and 4 of this report describes the magnetism between you, but does not describe your individual natures. For example, suppose that Chapter 2 makes little mention of romance and sexuality, but the Natal Reports for each of you indicate that each of you has extremely strong romantic and sexual desires. In this case, marriage is not likely to be successful! However, if romance and sexuality are not important to either of you, then the lack of passion in your relationship is not likely to be as much of a stumbling block.
Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of
the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of
students of astrology, these positions, along with other
technical information, are listed below:
Positions and Data for Dax:
Sun position is 11 deg. 41 min. of Capricorn
Moon position is 14 deg. 17 min. of Virgo
Mercury position is 19 deg. 50 min. of Capricorn
Venus position is 25 deg. 31 min. of Capricorn
Mars position is 16 deg. 11 min. of Sagittarius
Jupiter position is 13 deg. 36 min. of Pisces
Saturn position is 15 deg. 44 min. of Cancer
Uranus position is 1 deg. 56 min. of Scorpio
Neptune position is 10 deg. 29 min. of Sagittarius
Pluto position is 9 deg. 14 min. of Libra
Asc. position is 5 deg. 37 min. of Aries
MC position is 2 deg. 51 min. of Capricorn
2nd cusp position is 16 deg. 15 min. of Taurus
3rd cusp position is 11 deg. 58 min. of Gemini
5th cusp position is 24 deg. 13 min. of Cancer
6th cusp position is 21 deg. 43 min. of Leo
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 17:00:00
Time Zone: 5 hours West. Lat & Long: 42 N 35 37 83 W 35 58
Positions and Data for Kristen:
Sun position is 26 deg. 09 min. of Cancer
Moon position is 8 deg. 57 min. of Libra
Mercury position is 15 deg. 55 min. of Cancer
Venus position is 18 deg. 31 min. of Gemini
Mars position is 4 deg. 29 min. of Libra
Jupiter position is 9 deg. 05 min. of Virgo
Saturn position is 22 deg. 49 min. of Virgo
Uranus position is 21 deg. 34 min. of Scorpio
Neptune position is 20 deg. 24 min. of Sagittarius
Pluto position is 19 deg. 05 min. of Libra
Asc. position is 2 deg. 41 min. of Libra
MC position is 3 deg. 10 min. of Cancer
2nd cusp position is 28 deg. 39 min. of Libra
3rd cusp position is 29 deg. 11 min. of Scorpio
5th cusp position is 7 deg. 00 min. of Aquarius
6th cusp position is 7 deg. 13 min. of Pisces
Tropical/PLACIDUS Daylight Savings Time observed. GMT: 16:00:00
Time Zone: 5 hours West. Lat & Long: 42 N 28 50 83 W 10 01
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
Dax’s Sun in Capricorn and Kristen’s Sun in Cancer:
In many ways the two of you are opposites. Kristen needs a lot of domestic and family activities. Nurturing others and personal involvement with others is a necessary part of life for Kristen. Family and close friends are extremely important for Kristen, while Dax often becomes emotionally detached from personal affairs and may fail to fully appreciate Kristen’s more personal, emotional responses to situations. Dax may seem dry and emotionally inexpressive to Kristen.
Your differences can serve to complement each other only if you really understand and appreciate each other. Both of you do seek security, consistency, and fidelity in relationships, so there is a reasonably good chance that over time you will develop a greater appreciation for each other’s opposite qualities.
Dax’s Moon in Virgo and Kristen’s Moon in Libra:
Both of you are perfectionists in your own ways, though what “perfection” means to each of you differs. Kristen wants the perfect relationship, one that is beautiful and harmonious and free from all tension, conflict, or dissonance, and also one in which both partners share equally in everything, are able to discuss everything together, and always work out a fair, equitable solution to any problem that arises. It may be difficult for Kristen to accept the cruder or less-than-ideal aspects of a partner’s character or appearance. Dax is a perfectionist in the sense of wanting perfect order in the environment and paying meticulous attention to detail, being fastidious and particular about hygiene, health and diet, or correct behavior and procedure.
Dax is also self-critical and often tries to live up to impossibly high standards for behavior, appearance, performance, or technical ability.
Both of you have rather refined sensitivities. You also respond more reasonably and logically, rather than impulsively or emotionally, to most situations.
One difference between you is that Kristen can see merit in just about anyone’s viewpoint and often doesn’t have strong, extreme views, while Dax does have very clear, definite ideas, and the annoying habit of correcting other people when they are “wrong”.
Both of you have Moon conjunct or in hard aspect to Mars:
Competitiveness is a strong undercurrent in your relationship, and it’s hard for either of you to back down or to take a back seat to the other. Both of you are rather easily provoked also, and tend to be hotly confrontational, especially if you believe your home, family, or territory is being threatened. It’s best for both of you to actively express your emotions, especially frustration and anger, and you need to find ways to let off steam on a regular basis. Otherwise, your home life and close relationships are apt to be filled with stormy, even violent, emotional scenes. You share a tendency to blow up first and ask questions later.
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
Mercury Mutually Aspects Saturn:
Your relationship can become dry from lack of communication and too much emphasis on pragmatic and mundane affairs – if so, try to loosen up a little! You can help one another clarify and define your ideas, but the tendency to correct, criticize, disapprove, or simply not listen to each other is very strong. A course in “communication skills” may be in order for you!
Dax’s Mercury Trine Kristen’s Saturn:
You work together well on practical problems. You help each other refine and clarify your ideas, and help “edit” each other’s work. Consequently you make a very effective team in business affairs, important or exacting work, and in solving daily problems.
Kristen’s Mercury Conjunct Dax’s Saturn:
You two can have serious communication problems. Dax can help Kristen clarify and define ideas, but very often ends up criticizing or belittling them instead which makes Kristen doubt, withhold, or simply be quiet. Dax needs to be very careful not to interrupt, ignore, or judge Kristen when Kristen is speaking. Also, your conversations tend to focus on serious topics or practical affairs and business, which can become dull for one or both of you.
Kristen’s Sun Opposition Dax’s Venus:
Sparks fly when you come into contact with one another! Strong feelings of love, attraction, warmth, mutual admiration, and appreciation bring you together, and you are able to express your love feelings openly and fully to one another. You can be great friends and companions as well as lovers.
Dax’s Asc. Opposition Kristen’s Mars:
The attraction between you is very powerful and your partnership is a very close and intense one. You enjoy working together and it is also likely that you engage in competitive sports or games with each other. A negative possibility is that one of you would attempt to dominate the other, causing anger and resentment in the other. You antagonize one another at times by emphasizing your individual differences and your own needs, rather than trying to cooperate or harmonize with one another. You are able to get issues out in the open, but direct confrontation can degenerate into attack if you are not careful. Be gentler with each other!
Kristen’s Moon Conjunct Dax’s Pluto:
Kristen’s emotional responses to Dax are very intense. If Dax is physically attractive to Kristen, then the attractive power of Dax over Kristen is extremely powerful. However, the attraction tends to have a love/hate quality to it, and you feel drawn to each other, but also wary and distrustful of each other. It is likely that you feel both drawn to each other and repulsed by each other at the same time! The emotional response to each other is intense and complex, and the ultimate outcome of this deep, complex emotional tie is difficult to predict, but one thing is certain: this is not a lukewarm relationship and you “get under each other’s skin”, evoking intense feelings from each other. Kristen can easily become obsessed with Dax!
Kristen’s Venus Opposition Dax’s Mars:
This is a relationship that is sparked by an irresistible sexual attraction and romantic desire. Your passion and desire for one another will always remain alive. If either of you is prone to possessiveness or jealousy, then you may find yourself feeling very uncomfortable by even subtle indications that you are competing with other suitors.
Dax’s Sun Square Kristen’s Moon:
The two of you are fascinated by each other and strongly attracted to each other, but the distinct differences in your temperaments also inclines you to periods of personality clashes and misunderstandings. In particular, Kristen often feels that Dax does not sympathize enough or try to really understand Kristen’s feelings. If you try to force each other to be more like yourself (or more your like image of the perfect mate), this relationship can be disastrous. But if the two of you understand and respect each other’s differences, you can enjoy the fascination and stimulating effect of your differences without clashing with each other. This is easier said than done, however, and both of you must make a concerted effort to harmonize your very different temperaments.
Dax’s Sun Trine Kristen’s Jupiter:
The two of you really enjoy each other’s company! Kristen has a great deal of confidence in Dax and is able to see Dax’s best qualities. You are very encouraging and supportive of each other, helping each other to be more confident, open new doors, and advance and grow in both inner and outer ways. This positive note of good will and harmony is also invaluable in helping the two of you overcome differences in temperament and other stressful aspects of your relationship discussed elsewhere in this report.
Dax’s Mercury Square Kristen’s Pluto:
Your conversations have a deep, probing quality. There is a strong tendency to attempt to coerce your partner to understand your point of view and agree with you. Kristen may attempt to dominate Dax’s thinking, or radically alter Dax’s view of things.
Kristen’s Mercury Trine Dax’s Jupiter:
Communication is open and harmonious. You are able to help each other incorporate new ideas and expand your perspective. If you have a close, long-lasting relationship, you will develop similar political, social, religious, and philosophical views. The similarity in your overall perspectives on life helps the two of you feel very happy to share your lives together. Your overall beliefs and aims are in harmony.
Dax’s Venus Trine Kristen’s Saturn:
There is a great deal of mutual trustworthiness, reliability, and responsibility in this relationship that makes you both feel very secure with each other. You can count on each other, and you both take the relationship seriously. You willingly make sacrifices for each other, and a deep love between you develops over time. You will assist each other a great deal over the years. This is likely to be a deep, meaningful, lasting relationship.
Destiny and Final Outcome of Your Relationship
Composite Sun Opposition Mercury:
Yours is an intellectual relationship, among other things. Exchanging thoughts, studying together, sharing information, talking and bantering, turning one another on to new books or ideas, sparking one another’s curiosity and interest in the world – all of these are important aspects of your relationship. A certain detachment and the ability to think about and talk about what is going on between you are also highlighted. Put simply, becoming more conscious or more informed and educated is a significant reason the two of you are drawn together.
Composite Sun Sextile Saturn:
One of the positives in your relationship of the sense that you can always count on each other, and that no matter what, you have a steady, reliable friend in one another. Conscientiousness, loyalty, the capacity to stay with it over the long haul – these are essential aspects of your bond.
Practical matters, the business of daily living, work, and taking care of mundane affairs are also very much a part of it. You work well together. Planning and investing for the future, and making wise financial choices together are emphasized.
Composite Mercury Trine Saturn:
This is destined to be a “nuts and bolts” relationship in some ways. Sharing technical expertise or some sort of practical knowledge, teaching one another some particular skill, developing a business strategy together, or simply being very pragmatic and organized in the way you do things as a couple all contribute to the success and probable longevity of your relationship.
At times, the communication between you becomes a bit dry, mundane, and matter-of-fact (unless there are other factors which stimulate imagination and excitement between you).
Composite Mars Conjunct Uranus:
Unexpected explosions – of anger, passionate desire, or a wild urge to do something reckless – will occur rather frequently in your relationship. You two can be dangerous together! There is a dare-devilish excitement in your combined energies, and certainly neither of you will be bored. However, excessive selfishness and self will, a quickness to anger, and a generally unstable temperamental quality can be unsettling to your peace of mind.
When the two of you are together, people will see you as a dynamic duo – or a couple of troublemakers! Part of the purpose of your relationship is to break rules, and as a couple you are apt to fight for your freedom to do so. Sexually you will be very adventurous and spontaneous together.
Composite Jupiter Quincunx Uranus:
Humor, playfulness, mischievous fun, unexpected gifts, serendipitous events and sudden twists of fate (mostly for the good) abound in this relationship. When the two of you are together, things often go awry or turn out differently than planned, but frequently this works out to your benefit. Keeping an open mind and a sense of comedy will be essential. Flexibility and adaptability will also.
The two of you goad each other to be impulsive, careless, or irresponsible and this, too, will play a part in your relationship.
Composite Sun Conjunct Pluto:
There is definitely an element of destiny or inevitability, something which cannot be resisted or avoided, in the two of you coming together. This relationship can take you further into your own depths than you’ve ever been before, and truly be life-changing for both of you. You have a profound and powerful influence upon one another for good or ill, and once joined, it will be extremely difficult to ever totally sever your connection. You really get inside each other. You may become one another’s psychotherapist in a manner of speaking, because being together dredges up a lot of your hidden agendas or motives and you become aware of many more facets of yourselves than you were ever conscious of before.
Together, you can also be an incredibly potent force in other peoples’ lives. Your charisma and influence as a couple far exceeds your individual powers. If the two of you are tempted to misuse this, you could be involved in manipulative games and power plays, Machiavellian exploits of all kinds. Using your powers creatively and positively, you could become healers or agents of transformation and renewal in the world.
Composite Mercury Trine Neptune:
The two of you as a couple will be strongly influenced be spiritual teachings, the joint pursuit of inner development, or a combined interest in imagery, poetry, art, and the imaginative life of the mind.
You will be unusually telepathic with one another, and will almost immediately be able to convey your thoughts to one another non-verbally. On a mental level anyway, you blend together very will.
Idealism and trying to view situations from a higher, more encompassing perspective are emphasized when you are together, and a spiritual understanding will be easy for the two of you to achieve.
You are destined to be involved with learning about the subtle, intangible forces in life, the effects of color, music, artistic images, subtle healing energies, or prayer. Teaching or otherwise disseminating these ideas may well be a function of your relationship.
Composite Mercury Opposition Pluto:
Your conversations will reveal to both of you aspects of yourselves that have been hidden – either purposely concealed or long ago denied and buried. Without even trying, the two of you will make the other confront those underlying assumptions, unquestioned beliefs, and ways of thinking which you normally would take for granted. You also find yourselves divulging information, or questioning things which until now you were content to let lie.
Mysteries, secrets, investigating the underside of any issue – these will be a significant part of your relationship. Whether or not you are willing to see and consciously acknowledge some of these things will determine how well you two get along. Part of the purpose of your relationship is to bring to light and conscious understanding those parts of your lives that have not been examined before. For the well-being of both of you, make sure that you do not use the knowledge and information you have of one another as a tool to control or manipulate each other. Especially do not abuse your awareness of the other’s psychological weaknesses and vulnerabilities.
Composite Mars Quincunx Jupiter:
As a couple you will have to balance a certain tendency to over-estimate your resources and capacities. Somehow you foster in one another an unrealistic belief in your powers, prowess, or potential for success. You will generate a lot of positive energy and expectations which can then dissipate due to poor timing or becoming discouraged over having bitten off more than you could chew. Like the minor league player who will never feel successful unless he makes it to the major league, you’ll need to be satisfied with what you can do or achieve or create, rather than comparing yourselves to a rather grandiose standard. The “wannabe” syndrome is a rather discordant note in what otherwise may well be a healthy and positive pairing.
Other Themes in Your Relationship
Dax’s Sun in Kristen’s 4th house:
Dax is able to confide in Kristen, and your relationship is a very personal, intimate one. Kristen brings out Dax’s softer side. You are drawn to live together and share a home together.
Kristen’s Sun in Dax’s 5th house:
Kristen encourages Dax’s creative talents, and both of you are inspired to undertake joint creative projects. If you share a similar artistic or creative interest, then you certainly will work together and inspire each other tremendously along creative lines. You really enjoy each other’s company and love to play games together.
Dax’s Moon in Kristen’s 12th house:
Kristen likes to confide in Dax, telling Dax many events and circumstances from childhood that no one else has been told.
Kristen’s Moon in Dax’s 7th house:
Kristen is more willing to cooperate and make compromises with Dax than with most other people. Kristen often plays a supportive role to Dax, quietly providing assistance and support to Dax. This will be true even if your relationship is not a serious or permanent one.
Dax’s Mercury in Kristen’s 4th house,
Kristen’s Mercury in Dax’s 4th house:
You love to discuss very personal issues with each other, and consequently there is a very close, inner tie between you. Your conversations invariably turn towards family issues and personal feelings, even if your relationship is a casual one.
Dax’s Venus in Kristen’s 4th house:
Kristen’s deep feelings of love and admiration for Dax are not likely to evaporate over time. Both of you love your times together, especially your shared domestic life.
Kristen’s Venus in Dax’s 3rd house:
Your conversations are generally pleasant and enjoyable. You argue with each other much less than you do with other people.
Dax’s Mars in Kristen’s 3rd house:
Dax enjoys challenging Kristen’s reasoning and logic, and Kristen may feel that this relationship is more like a debate club than a romance! If both of you can keep your communication from becoming acrimonious, you can learn a great deal from each other and enjoy a mentally stimulating relationship.
Kristen’s Mars in Dax’s 6th house:
Kristen enjoys performing chores for Dax, and also takes an interest in Dax’s work and health. Kristen enjoys assisting Dax in practical ways and the two of you are able to buckle down together and accomplish a great deal.
Dax’s Jupiter in Kristen’s 6th house,
Kristen’s Jupiter in Dax’s 6th house:
The two of you are excellent co-workers and colleagues. You work together very effectively on practical tasks and you take a great interest in each other’s health and overall well-being. If you are married, you are not likely to argue over who will take care of which chore or task (washing the dishes, mowing the lawn) as you both enjoy assisting each other in day-to-day chores.
Dax’s Saturn in Kristen’s 10th house:
Dax takes a great interest in Kristen’s ambitions and career goals, but is also very critical and sometimes even dogmatic in viewing Kristen’s career goals. Dax may also unintentionally get in Kristen’s way, inadvertently creating roadblocks on Kristen’s path. Dax needs to show greater trust in the integrity of Kristen’s opinions. Kristen should try not to become overly sensitive to Dax’s views, be willing to listen to, and learn from Dax. Also, Kristen shouldn’t be overly-dependent on Dax’s judgment.
Kristen’s Saturn in Dax’s 6th house:
If you are married or live together, handling schedules and day-to-day responsibilities can become a major issue and a potential stumbling block. You can lock horns when it comes to deciding who is responsible for preparing meals, cleaning the home, getting the car fixed, making sure all of the bills are paid, mowing the lawn, etc. Kristen, in particular, may have the sense of contributing more than half the load, and may resent any complaints by Dax. Oddly enough, it is likely that together you probably a do a good job at meeting these responsibilities, and very often you work well together. But unresolved disagreements on how to best coordinate your efforts can be a sore point in your relationship.
Dax’s Uranus in Kristen’s 2nd house:
Dax encourages Kristen to use more creative, unusual methods for investing, developing financial stability and security. Dax may, for example, encourage Kristen to invest in a new enterprise that presents big opportunities but is also risky.
Kristen’s Uranus in Dax’s 8th house:
Your courtship undoubtedly took many unusual twists and turns. The attraction between you is powerful, and sometimes the “urge to merge” is almost irresistible. Sexual activity and love-making probably began very early in the relationship. Also, the way you jointly handle finances and investments is likely to take some unusual turns and the two of you may, for example, invest in some risky ventures. Also, if you marry and later divorce, both of you are likely to be surprised by the manner in which you agree to divide your joint resources.
Dax’s Neptune in Kristen’s 3rd house:
Frequently, the two of you misunderstand each other regarding some practical detail or specific instruction. Without realizing it, Dax tends to communicate less clearly to Kristen than to others, and does not concentrate as much on the practical nitty-gritty of what is being communicated. Kristen, in turn, responds by being slightly distracted and less attentive to the factual details being communicated.
Kristen’s Neptune in Dax’s 9th house:
There is a very tolerant, open-minded quality to your relationship, and both of you find that you put each other in an open-minded frame of mind. You enjoy exploring new ideas and viewpoints and you inspire each other’s imagination. You enjoy planning and scheming on a big scale together, but be wary of projecting your fantasies on situations and expecting too much from your plans. Avoid joint wild speculations and gambling.
Dax’s Pluto in Kristen’s 1st house:
Dax is fascinating, mysterious, almost charismatic to Kristen. There is a strong desire to know each other more intimately, and share very personal experiences. You may also be prone to power struggles at times or try to manipulate one another.
Kristen’s Pluto in Dax’s 7th house:
Kristen is a very interesting, intriguing, and perhaps even mysterious person to Dax. There is a strong magnetic attraction between you. You enjoy the intensity of the energy exchange between you, and you may also enjoy competing (in sports or other activities) with each other.
Dax’s Sun Opposition Kristen’s Mercury:
Lively exchanges of ideas are common between the two of you. Fortunately, you understand each other well, but unfortunately you sometimes have opposite opinions and perspectives on an issue. Despite your differences, you work together very well in practical matters, planning, organizing, developing or communicating ideas, and your differing viewpoints are not likely to be a serious problem.
Dax’s Asc. Opposition Kristen’s Moon:
Although your tastes and preferences are often completely opposite from each other, you love and admire each other very deeply. There is almost a maternal tenderness that you feel for each other, and the warm sympathy and caring that you feel for each other fosters a close and lasting relationship. There is a “soul kinship” between you.
Dax’s Moon Square Kristen’s Venus:
You love each other very deeply and the attraction between you is very strong, but your relationship is also prone to emotional ups and downs. It is not unusual for the quality of feelings that you have for each other to be quite different and this can lead to misunderstandings. For example, Kristen may be in a romantic mood at a given time while Dax is feeling friendly, but not romantic. The roles sometimes reverse, and you find that your feelings frequently just won’t synchronize. You also easily hurt each other’s feelings, not realizing how much the other person loves and cherishes you. By being flexible and adaptable, and really trying to sympathize with each other, you can avoid these problems most of the time.
Dax’s Moon Sextile Kristen’s Mercury:
Long, friendly conversations are frequent in your relationship. You are able to openly share your inner feelings and concerns, and very often you may feel that there are very few other people that understand and appreciate you as well; this is true even in the early stages of your relationship. The deep level of mutual understanding and appreciation inclines your friendship to be a long, harmonious one.
Kristen’s Moon Sextile Dax’s Neptune:
You feel extremely comfortable with each other, and it is not surprising that you have become close friends. The intuitive rapport for each other is very strong, and you connect strongly on a deep, compassionate, almost mystical level. You also work well together in artistic, musical, and humanitarian areas.
Dax’s Mercury Opposition Kristen’s Mercury:
You often hold opposite views on a subject and you often approach a problem in opposite ways. For example, one of you may be more methodical, logical, pragmatic, etc. while the other’s approach is diametrically opposite, being primarily philosophical, idealistic, and intuitive. Fortunately, however, these differences are not likely to lead to major conflicts, and often serve to complement each other. Only if either, or both, of you is very fixed and dogmatic in your thinking will this difference create serious problems.
Dax’s Mercury Sextile Kristen’s Uranus:
You spark each other’s wit and imagination, and you probably enjoy joking with each other. You bring out creative, inventive ideas in each other, and you develop original and creative ideas together.
Kristen’s Venus Square Dax’s Jupiter:
You enjoy laughing, having fun, socializing, and going out together. You are great pals, but the relationship may not be serious enough to warrant a lasting commitment to each other. Consequently you both may decide to not marry even though you may love each other very much. If you do marry, you will allow each other a great deal of freedom, but you are likely to disagree on how to handle finances, budgeting, and investments.
Dax’s Mars Conjunct Kristen’s Neptune:
When the two of you are together, you find it difficult to concentrate on mundane affairs. You enjoy sharing more imaginative or unusual interests, and your conversations frequently turn to artistic, psychological, religious, and metaphysical topics. You are more willing to be childish, playful and silly with each other than with others. However, you have difficulty bearing down on more serious matters and coordinating on practical affairs.
You are also fascinated with one another and can have a very dreamy sexual and romantic interest in each other. Your erotic imagination is powerfully stimulated by one another, and you find each other mysteriously desirable, highly provocative, or seductive. You need to be quite honest with one another about what you really want and are willing to give. Kristen especially should avoid arousing Dax’s passionate desires, teasing or leading Dax on, unless you truly intend to fulfill your “promises”.
Kristen’s Mars Conjunct Dax’s Pluto:
You draw out of each other your deepest drives and desires. The two of you arouse a zeal and sense of mission in each other that makes it possible for you to jointly accomplish extraordinary tasks. However, your fears and anxieties are brought to the surface too, and there is no guarantee that your zealousness will produce positive, constructive results. You may become fanatical in an extreme and unbalanced manner. Also, sexual passion, jealousy, and competition can be very volatile, disruptive, obsessive, and intense in this relationship.
Kristen’s Jupiter Square Dax’s Neptune:
You stimulate one another’s expansive, restless, imaginative, idealistic, and impractical sides. You inspire one another, but there’s a fine line between being optimistic and being foolhardy, and together you tend to overestimate what you can really do, to be blinded by an overly hopeful or grandiose sense of what is possible.
Dax, in particular, should avoid exaggerating, misrepresenting, or subtly misleading Kristen, or encouraging Kristen to be irresponsible.
Traveling, vacationing, gambling and other “escapist” activities are things you are inclined to do together.
If you are inclined toward spirituality or mysticism, this aspect of yourselves will be emphasized by being together, along with a tendency to become rather unbalanced, overly idealistic, or ungrounded in your approach.