The Compatibility Report for
Birth Data for Alex:
27 July 1975
New York, New York
Birth Data for Jennifer:
24 July 1969
Bronx, New York
This Lovers Report is divided into 4 chapters.
Chapter 1 compares your temperaments and personalities. The issues described in Chapter 1 become particularly powerful if you are married or live together. Idiosyncrasies or quirks in another person’s personality do not bother us as much if our relationship is a casual one. For example, if one person is neat and tidy and the other is sloppy, this is more likely to become a concern if you are married than if you are only seeing each other occasionally.
Pay close attention to the issues described in Chapter 2 because these are the most important themes in your relationship. For example, if themes of romance and sexual attraction are emphasized, then you can count on this relationship being a passionate one. However, if romance and sexuality are hardly mentioned at all, then this relationship will not be a passionate one. Note also that the material in Chapter 2 is presented roughly in order of importance, so that the material presented at the beginning of Chapter 2 is the most powerful.
Chapter 4 describes issues in your relationship of less importance than those presented in Chapter 2. Chapter 3 describes situations and circumstances that arise if you have a close, long-lasting relationship.
If a statement appears to contradict another statement, then your roles are likely to alternate. For example, a statement that Alex is more aggressive than Jennifer, and another statement that Jennifer is more aggressive than Alex, means that you alternate roles, with Alex sometimes being the leader and Jennifer being the follower, and sometimes just the opposite. Also, read the statements carefully, as it is likely that a careful reading will reveal different kinds of aggressiveness or areas in which the aggressiveness is likely to express itself.
To make the most of this report, combine this astrological analysis with other things that you know about each other. For example, we have assumed that you are opposite-sexed (assuming that both of you are heterosexual, otherwise same-sexed). Physical attractiveness, age, religion, education, family and cultural background will affect your relationship as well. The material in Chapters 2, 3, and 4 of this report describes the magnetism between you, but does not describe your individual natures. For example, suppose that Chapter 2 makes little mention of romance and sexuality, but the Natal Reports for each of you indicate that each of you has extremely strong romantic and sexual desires. In this case, marriage is not likely to be successful! However, if romance and sexuality are not important to either of you, then the lack of passion in your relationship is not likely to be as much of a stumbling block.
Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of
the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of
students of astrology, these positions, along with other
technical information, are listed below:
Positions and Data for Alex:
Sun position is 4 deg. 00 min. of Leo
Moon position is 23 deg. 22 min. of Pisces
Mercury position is 28 deg. 35 min. of Cancer
Venus position is 10 deg. 05 min. of Virgo
Mars position is 18 deg. 18 min. of Taurus
Jupiter position is 24 deg. 10 min. of Aries
Saturn position is 24 deg. 04 min. of Cancer
Uranus position is 28 deg. 32 min. of Libra
Neptune position is 9 deg. 11 min. of Sagittarius
Pluto position is 6 deg. 56 min. of Libra
Asc. position is 16 deg. 24 min. of Libra
MC position is 19 deg. 07 min. of Cancer
2nd cusp position is 13 deg. 40 min. of Scorpio
3rd cusp position is 14 deg. 59 min. of Sagittarius
5th cusp position is 22 deg. 29 min. of Aquarius
6th cusp position is 21 deg. 53 min. of Pisces
Tropical/PLACIDUS Daylight Savings Time observed. GMT: 16:00:00
Time Zone: 5 hours West. Lat & Long: 40 N 42 51 74 W 00 23
Positions and Data for Jennifer:
Sun position is 1 deg. 36 min. of Leo
Moon position is 29 deg. 54 min. of Scorpio
Mercury position is 4 deg. 01 min. of Leo
Venus position is 19 deg. 19 min. of Gemini
Mars position is 3 deg. 31 min. of Sagittarius
Jupiter position is 1 deg. 19 min. of Libra
Saturn position is 8 deg. 17 min. of Taurus
Uranus position is 0 deg. 50 min. of Libra
Neptune position is 25 deg. 59 min. of Scorpio
Pluto position is 23 deg. 06 min. of Virgo
Asc. position is 26 deg. 20 min. of Libra
MC position is 1 deg. 07 min. of Leo
2nd cusp position is 24 deg. 16 min. of Scorpio
3rd cusp position is 26 deg. 21 min. of Sagittarius
5th cusp position is 4 deg. 22 min. of Pisces
6th cusp position is 2 deg. 55 min. of Aries
Tropical/PLACIDUS Daylight Savings Time observed. GMT: 17:00:00
Time Zone: 5 hours West. Lat & Long: 40 N 51 73 W 54
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
Alex’s Sun in Leo and Jennifer’s Sun in Leo:
You are both proud, vibrant, warm, but rather self-centered individuals. You both want to be the center of attention, and you may not want to share the starring role with your partner. Neither of you can dominate in this relationship – you must cooperate, which isn’t something that comes naturally to either of you.
Although it may not be obvious to others, both of you are very self-conscious individuals, and you are very concerned with your own personal creativity, personal recognition, and personal performance. Both of you are best suited to work that is very personal and creative – being one inconspicuous part of a large corporation is not for you.
Your relationship is likely to be either extraordinarily happy and fulfilling or else disastrous – with no middle ground. You tend to either adore each other or despise each other. You are both very loyal, but you must respect and believe in your partner. If you ever feel that your partner lacks integrity or honesty, or is competing with you, or does not appreciate or understand your creative work and motivations, then the love and admiration that you have for each other turns sour quickly.
Alex’s Moon in Pisces and Jennifer’s Moon in Scorpio:
You are both very intuitive and psychically receptive, and you sense what is going on inside others even when they try to hide it. You have a very sympathetic rapport with one another, and you may get so enmeshed with each other that it is hard for you to tell whether you are feeling your own emotions and responses, or those of your partner.
Both of you are very, very sensitive, but the difference between you is this: Jennifer will hold onto hurt feelings and may harbor unexpressed resentments, jealousies, secret fears, and guilt for a long, long time. Alex, on the other hand, is much more forgiving, tolerant, and ready to make excuses for the offender. Jennifer is more of a fighter and wants to retaliate when injured; Alex is basically a peace-loving pacifist who would rather not create more conflict.
Though you both feel very deeply, you may not be very articulate about your feelings and inner experiences. You share an affinity for music. Living near water would be beneficial for both of you.
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
Alex’s Sun Conjunct Jennifer’s Sun:
You strongly identify with each other and are very much alike in important ways. It is easy for you to be together because you do not have to explain yourselves to one another. An innate appreciation and understanding of one another’s essence exists between you, and this is vitalizing and ego-affirming for both of you. However, you share the same flaws and weaknesses as well as the positive qualities, and you may find it difficult to be with someone who so clearly exhibits the very things you like least about yourself. The more you accept yourself, the more beneficial and delightful your relationship with one another is.
Alex’s Sun Conjunct Jennifer’s Mercury:
Talking and sharing ideas is highlighted in your relationship. You enjoy learning new things together and exchanging points of view. You work well together in planning, organizing, theorizing, writing, or communicating ideas in any manner. You work together effectively on daily chores, problems, or business activities.
Jennifer’s Asc. Conjunct Alex’s Uranus:
There is an electric, immediate attraction between the two of you and an element of surprise, discovery, and spontaneity will always infuse your relationship.
Alex stimulates Jennifer to be more uninhibited, looser, less conventional, and to experiment. Alex can also be unpredictable and changeable toward Jennifer, and Jennifer may feel that Alex is not to be relied upon. Alex brings out Jennifer’s independent or eccentric side. Personal freedom, independence, and individuality are highlighted in your relationship, and sometimes one or both of you feels that there is not enough togetherness, mutual dependency, or emotional closeness.
Nevertheless, there is much enthusiasm and spark between you, and your relationship is always changing, always exciting.
Jennifer’s Asc. Opposition Alex’s Jupiter:
Alex is of great benefit to Jennifer in some way: opening doors, offering opportunities to expand and grow, and bringing Jennifer into contact with other people or an entirely new world which will enrich Jennifer’s life. Alex also gives generously to Jennifer emotionally, materially, or both.
There is a high level of trust and acceptance between you which makes this relationship very nourishing and fulfilling for you both. Marriage or any cooperative endeavor is likely to be very successful.
Alex’s Moon Opposition Jennifer’s Pluto:
There is an obsessive quality to the desire you feel for one another and the emotional intensity of this relationship may be more than either of you wants to handle. You are deeply attracted to each other, drawn to each other like magnets, and you “get under each other’s skin”. You find yourselves pouring out your deepest feelings to each other. Or you may struggle to hide your true feelings from each other, and consequently become enmeshed in a very complex emotional tangle. You may feel simultaneously intensely attracted and repulsed by each other. Bonding is intense, though, and you may evoke feelings of jealousy and possessiveness in each other as well. If either of you is unwilling to have your deepest feelings exposed and your ingrained habits challenged, you will find this relationship too stressful.
Alex’s Sun Trine Jennifer’s Mars:
Successful cooperation in achieving goals and accomplishing tasks is highlighted. You make an excellent working team and you are able to assist each other in achieving specific, concrete goals. The sexual attraction between you is also very strong.
Jennifer’s Asc. Square Alex’s Mercury:
Frequently the two of you view a situation very differently, and you frequently respond to events very differently. Unfortunately, you are also inclined to feel that your approach is superior and feel very frustrated that you cannot enlighten your partner. Very often, also, this annoying situation is triggered by a relatively minor incident. Try to better appreciate your partner’s point of view.
Jennifer’s Asc. Square Alex’s Saturn:
Alex often checks or throws a damper on Jennifer’s spontaneous impulses and self-expression, which is frustrating to Jennifer, and can be a source of resentment if it continues for too long. Alex makes Jennifer question and doubt Jennifer’s actions, which can be a good thing in small doses, especially if Jennifer tends to be rash or foolhardy. However, Alex must avoid becoming a “heavy” in Jennifer’s life, always the nay sayer or disciplinarian.
Alex’s Asc. Trine Jennifer’s Venus:
Romantic attraction is strong and you both deeply admire and appreciate each other. Romantic or sentimental gestures, such as bringing home flowers, come naturally to both of you and this love affair is very important to both of you – and could possibly lead to a long-term relationship or marriage.
Alex’s Moon Trine Jennifer’s Neptune:
You spark each other’s imagination and you enjoy a colorful, sensitive relationship. Sharing of inner experiences, artistic and musical interests is a strong, positive part of your relationship, and you may engage in positive artistic, musical, religious, or altruistic endeavors together.
Jennifer’s Moon Trine Alex’s Mercury:
You enjoy long talks and you feel very much at home with each other. You are able to openly share your feelings about various issues, whether they are political, religious, or personal in nature. You will find that as you spend more time together, your tastes, interests, hobbies, and activities tend to blend together harmoniously. The feeling of friendship and inner understanding of each other is very satisfying and of a very positive nature.
Alex’s Mercury Trine Jennifer’s Neptune:
You enjoy discussing any subject that has an imaginative or mystical quality – art, music, fiction, theater, or religion. You kindle each other’s imagination and ideals. You work together well in the arts, and humanitarian and religious areas. You have a strong intuitive and psychic rapport and often understand each other without need for words.
Alex’s Venus Trine Jennifer’s Saturn:
There is a great deal of mutual trustworthiness, reliability, and responsibility in this relationship that makes you both feel very secure with each other. You can count on each other, and you both take the relationship seriously. You willingly make sacrifices for each other, and a deep love between you develops over time. You will assist each other a great deal over the years. This is likely to be a deep, meaningful, lasting relationship.
Destiny and Final Outcome of Your Relationship
Composite Sun Conjunct Mercury:
Yours is an intellectual relationship, among other things. Exchanging thoughts, studying together, sharing information, talking and bantering, turning one another on to new books or ideas, sparking one another’s curiosity and interest in the world – all of these are important aspects of your relationship. A certain detachment and the ability to think about and talk about what is going on between you are also highlighted. Put simply, becoming more conscious or more informed and educated is a significant reason the two of you are drawn together.
Composite Sun Trine Neptune:
Unselfishness, tolerance, and forgiveness flow readily between you, helping to ease and ameliorate any problems you face together. Your relationship has a strong idealistic and platonic quality. Even if you are involved sexually, the focus with the two of you is not primarily physical, but subtle, soulful, and spiritual in nature. You have high standards for your friendship and may expect yourselves or one another to be the Perfect Friend, all-giving and always impeccable in your dealings with each other. For the most part you both try to live up to these lofty images, and to not taint your relationship with selfish or mundane considerations.
The psychic tie is strong between you, too. You may experience an unusual ability to “read” one another, send messages to one another telepathically, and so on. Any interest you have in the metaphysical or imaginative arts will be highlighted, and become an important focus in your relationship.
Composite Mercury Conjunct Venus:
A shared sense of style, elegance, and aesthetics is destined to be a focus with the two of you. Discussions about art, love and romance, or what each of you finds beautiful are definitely part of this.
Also, the two of you are able to tell one another of your affection for one another, to express those feelings verbally or in writing. Small, considerate expressions of caring (as well as tactful, somewhat sugar-coated expressions of disagreement when that is appropriate) add much felicity to your relationship. You tend to either avoid “heavy” subjects, or are able to talk about them in a friendly, amicable manner.
Composite Mercury Trine Neptune:
The two of you as a couple will be strongly influenced be spiritual teachings, the joint pursuit of inner development, or a combined interest in imagery, poetry, art, and the imaginative life of the mind.
You will be unusually telepathic with one another, and will almost immediately be able to convey your thoughts to one another non-verbally. On a mental level anyway, you blend together very will.
Idealism and trying to view situations from a higher, more encompassing perspective are emphasized when you are together, and a spiritual understanding will be easy for the two of you to achieve.
You are destined to be involved with learning about the subtle, intangible forces in life, the effects of color, music, artistic images, subtle healing energies, or prayer. Teaching or otherwise disseminating these ideas may well be a function of your relationship.
Composite Mercury Sextile Pluto:
Through your relationship with one another, many issues in your lives which have been mystifying, elusive, or totally unconscious will become clearer to you. Things which you have perhaps concealed or avoided will become topics of conversation, and the two of you will analyze, scrutinize, and discover much about one another in this way.
Your relationship has a lot of intellectual depth and will spark you both to learn about the hidden forces at work in your lives. A shared interest in esoteric studies, parapsychology, the supernatural, and the development of mental powers and psychic perceptions will play a significant role in your relationship.
Composite Venus Sextile Pluto:
Your relationship with one another is meant to heal or transform you, change the way you view love, and make you aware of the depths you are capable of. There is an intensity of feeling and attraction and desire between you that will be quite compelling. You two can become incredibly close, so much so that you leave the rest of the world behind. Because of the remarkable influence you have on one another’s lives, this is not a relationship to enter into casually.
Composite Sun Conjunct Venus:
Quite simply, one of your purposes in being together is to create and express beauty, whether this is in the form of a beautiful, loving relationship, or gracious and artful works. There can also be an element of vanity, artifice, or wanting to show-off, the desire to be seen and recognized as a Beautiful Couple, whether or not that’s entirely true. Hiding or downplaying your difficulties and the ugly parts of your relationship may be helpful to a point, but if you try to maintain this image of yourselves as a happy, loving twosome despite your actual conflicts, then deeper troubles may never get attended to. However, whatever friction, dissonance, or ill will develops between you, there will also always be an urge to harmonize, reconcile, and ease your differences, and to create cooperation. It will take a lot for the two of you to ever turn against each other entirely.
Composite Moon Opposition Mercury:
With one another you have the opportunity to become aware of your own deepest feelings, emotional biases and prejudices, and those unexamined beliefs and habitual assumptions about things which color your attitudes toward life without your even being aware of them. The differences in your temperaments, upbringings, and personal tastes will challenge you both to clarify and talk about certain aspects of yourselves you’ve always taken for granted. From seemingly minor matters such as food preferences, to more important issues such as how to raise children, you’ll have to hash over and discuss things that always seemed implicitly true or valid to you. One of the purposes of your relationship is for you both to speak of and consciously examine those subconscious patterns and ingrained beliefs, all the influences from your pasts. Through being together you will understand yourselves better.
Composite Moon Opposition Venus:
Tenderness, caring, and love are the essence of your bond. The feeling that the two of you were meant for one another, and a sense of reuniting and coming together again after having been separated, is a strong undertone between you. There is a lot of sweetness and affection here, and at least one part of your purpose together is simply to share that! In many ways you are complements to one another (rather than similar or the same as each other), and you can blend your different abilities and qualities to form a rich and harmonious whole. You need one another, and allowing yourselves to be taken care of and depending on each other in certain ways are part of what this relationship is about.
Composite Moon Trine Pluto:
Yours is destined to be a profound emotional union. There is a compelling, irresistible, intense desire to know one another deeply, and to be together.
If you are seeking a light, casual relationship just for fun and good times, you may want to run away from this one – if you can! Inevitably, you will have powerful feelings of attachment, even jealous possessiveness, toward one another. This needn’t be troubling though. Mostly it’s just a testament to your strong bond.
If either or both of you tends to be too rational and intellectual, your relationship with one another will remedy that! You’ll share deeper feelings and become much more open to your own inner emotional life through being together. In fact, you may well have come together after one or both of you suffered a significant loss or trauma, and were thus much more aware of your heart and feelings and those deeper concerns that crisis forces upon us. One of the purposes of your relationship is to experience the depths of which you are capable, with another person.
Composite Venus Trine Neptune:
Enchantment, dreamy romanticism, and a quixotic vision of one another and yourselves as a couple, will tone your entire relationship. You may try to be your finest selves – the most loving, compassionate, giving and devoted of friends to one another – and thus set yourselves up for a fall from that very high pedestal!
Nevertheless, in many ways you do bring out the more refined and beautiful qualities in each other, and certainly this is part of what drew you together. At least from time to time, you will have glimpses of paradise with each other.
Composite Jupiter Square Uranus:
A spirit of adventure, exploration, expansion, and freedom (especially intellectual or philosophical freedom) is the lifeblood of this relationship. Together you will be quite restless, and you will impulsively do things, go places, and experiment with “far out” new things you may have been hesitant to try before. You may challenge one another’s faith or belief system, or do things that shake up your old assumptions about life. You’ll enjoy vacationing together, particularly in unusual places. There will always be something very unstructured, unconventional and unique about your relationship. Trying to cling to any particular form or preconceived idea about how you two “should” be simply won’t work.
Composite Saturn Trine Uranus:
In this relationship the two of you are able to effect a balance between your needs for security, stability, and structure and your urge for change, excitement, and newness. Neither of you will fear change in the other person or in the relationship, but radical, sudden changes that do occur will not disrupt the security you have together either. When you want to do something new, generally you will plan it together and not go to extremes. Thus a lively yet stable relationship results. You will have friends on both ends of the spectrum – rather conservative types and also the highly unconventional. Somehow the two of you relate easily to both, and you bring these people together, too, helping them to find common ground.
Other Themes in Your Relationship
Alex’s Sun in Jennifer’s 10th house,
Jennifer’s Sun in Alex’s 10th house:
Career goals and ambitions play a major part in your relationship. You encourage each other to succeed in your aspirations and together you are likely, through much effort and persistence, to climb the ladder of success. You may form a business partnership or work together closely in a joint effort.
Alex’s Moon in Jennifer’s 5th house:
Alex greatly appreciates Jennifer’s creative interests and provides an encouraging audience for Jennifer’s personal creative works, whether it be a garden, a culinary delight, home decor, or artistic creation.
Jennifer’s Moon in Alex’s 2nd house:
Situations arise that make it natural for Jennifer to provide material and emotional support for Alex. By circumstances, Jennifer becomes a benefactor to Alex, and this support engenders deeps feelings of love and appreciation for each other.
Alex’s Mercury in Jennifer’s 9th house:
Alex’s more philosophical or religious side is brought out in this relationship, and Alex tends to assume the role of teacher or sage. If Jennifer sympathizes with Alex’s views or is impressed by Alex’s wisdom, the relationship goes well but if Jennifer perceives Alex as being foolish or illogical, then a large gap in communication develops.
Jennifer’s Mercury in Alex’s 10th house:
Jennifer takes a great interest in Alex’s career and ambitions, and has lots of ideas on how Alex can reach goals and aspirations. The two of you enjoy planning together and sharing ideas, and there is a good chance that you will work together in some kind of business together.
Alex’s Venus in Jennifer’s 11th house:
You enjoy going out together and you will develop a love for the same friends, groups, and social activities. As a couple, you are outgoing and friendly, and will meet lots of new people and share many new experiences together.
Jennifer’s Venus in Alex’s 9th house:
Alex has a great deal of respect and appreciation for Jennifer, and may even look up to Jennifer. If Alex ever feels that Jennifer’s motives are not sincere or genuine, then the disappointment can be crushing to your relationship.
Alex’s Mars in Jennifer’s 7th house:
Alex has a “take charge” attitude towards this relationship. Also, Alex comes across very strong, perhaps aggressively, at times. Jennifer appreciates Alex’s direct, uninhibited approach, but there is a tendency to become combative and competitive with each other at times.
Jennifer’s Mars in Alex’s 2nd house:
Jennifer takes an active interest in the way Alex handles finances and assets. Jennifer may try to force individual opinions in these matters and try to take over the responsibility of handling finances.
Alex’s Jupiter in Jennifer’s 6th house:
Alex loves to be of practical service and help to Jennifer, though possibly reluctant to help out others. Alex takes a great interest in Jennifer’s health and overall well-being, and helps take care of day-to-day chores.
Jennifer’s Jupiter in Alex’s 12th house:
Jennifer has a knack for getting under Alex’s skin and understanding Alex in a more intimate, deeper way than most other people. Jennifer is a dear friend, and comes “to the rescue” in times of crisis or transition. Together, you will develop a shared interest in altruistic and humanitarian (possibly also religious or spiritual) activities.
Alex’s Saturn in Jennifer’s 9th house:
Alex causes Jennifer to question personally-held philosophical assumptions, political ideology, and religious beliefs. In fact, Alex often relishes challenging Jennifer’s views. If you have different beliefs, you will need to adapt to each other! Both of you will develop a more mature and realistic political, philosophical, and religious perspective through this relationship, although the learning process may not always be pleasant or easy. If either of you stubbornly clings to your own viewpoint, and is unwilling to learn from the other, you will gradually grow apart or create a rift in your relationship.
Jennifer’s Saturn in Alex’s 7th house:
Alex feels that Jennifer is a person who will be trustworthy, stable, mature, and committed to the relationship, and there is, indeed, a high level of security and stability that can be counted on in this relationship. Both of you feel comfortable making commitments to each other so if romantic attraction is also strong, then there is an inclination towards marriage. However, over time Alex may also find that Jennifer is critical of Alex’s friends and discourages Alex from participating in many social activities. It is also likely that the two of you will discover that you have different views of what marriage is and what the commitment of marriage entails, and you may find that you have to work hard at structuring your relationship in a manner that is satisfying to both of you. For example, one of you may have more liberal views on marriage and the other be more traditional and old-fashioned.
Alex’s Uranus in Jennifer’s 1st house:
Jennifer’s more unusual, creative side comes out in this relationship, and Jennifer feels more spontaneous and exuberant with Alex than with most other people. Consequently, there is a lively feeling to your relationship, but if Alex is a rather unstable person, then Jennifer may feel that there is not enough stability and reliability in the relationship.
Jennifer’s Uranus in Alex’s 12th house:
Jennifer, directly or indirectly, makes Alex reconsider many basic assumptions about life. A fresh perspective on issues of religious faith and ethics is often discovered, and Alex may be able to break free from the limitations of current attitudes and beliefs that work primarily in a subconscious manner to make Alex harbor secret feelings of guilt or inadequacy. Much of this change is likely to occur simply via the very different perspectives and attitudes that Jennifer has on certain issues, which encourages Alex to take a fresh look at issues of an innermost nature.
Alex’s Neptune in Jennifer’s 2nd house,
Jennifer’s Neptune in Alex’s 2nd house:
If you are married, you need to be careful about how you jointly handle your finances. You tend to be unrealistic and impractical in your faith in each other to meet expenses, and you may borrow way beyond your means or become involved in very risky ventures or gambling that depletes your assets.
Alex’s Pluto in Jennifer’s 12th house,
Jennifer’s Pluto in Alex’s 12th house:
There is a deep emotional and psychic tie between you that may not be apparent in the early stages of your relationship, but over time you begin to work together very closely on matters of very deep, personal concern. Together you uncover a lot of previously hidden problems and limitations stemming from early childhood. You probe any fears, phobias, or guilt that limits your ability to live a happy, fulfilling life.
Alex’s Sun Square Jennifer’s Saturn:
Jennifer must be very careful not to harshly criticize or judge Alex. There is a strong tendency for Alex to feel blocked, frustrated, and discouraged by Jennifer. Typically, Jennifer will feel surprised by Alex’s feelings of frustration and anger, and feel that Alex is just being overly sensitive to criticism. There is an element of truth to both viewpoints: Jennifer tends to be too critical of Alex and Alex tends to be too sensitive to the criticism; the combination can be disastrous! Alex may try to ignore the problem, but ignoring the problem will not cause the problem to disappear. This is a relationship that can help both of you mature a great deal; you are able to build a secure, stable life together and face many challenges and responsibilities together that you have been trying to avoid. However, the tendency to become overly concerned with your responsibilities and be too conservative, cautious, and restrictive towards each other must not get out of hand, or you will both feel severely confined and restricted by being together.
Jennifer’s Sun Square Alex’s Uranus:
Your relationship is exciting, unpredictable, and stimulating. However, it tends to be explosive too, and there is the strong possibility that you will come together suddenly and unexpectedly, and will break up just as suddenly. If either of you is looking for a very stable, quiet, traditional, uneventful marriage with security, commitment, dependability, and predictability, then this is not the relationship for you! Together you will explore new possibilities and interests and break away from traditional, long-held beliefs and assumptions. Your sexual life, like other aspects of your lives, is exciting but not predictable and likely to vary from ecstatic to unsatisfying. You must be willing to be flexible and adaptable in all areas of life. Be wary, also, of letting your love for freedom and independence become a euphemism for being neglectful and inconsiderate of each other.
Alex’s Sun Trine Jennifer’s Moon:
You have a strong affinity with one another, an instinctive rapport that enables you to know one another very well, almost from the start. A basic compatibility exists which helps you to overcome the stressful or problematic facts of your relationship. You have a natural sense of belonging with one another, and partnership of some kind is likely to develop and flourish.
Alex’s Moon Square Jennifer’s Venus:
You love each other very deeply and the attraction between you is very strong, but your relationship is also prone to emotional ups and downs. It is not unusual for the quality of feelings that you have for each other to be quite different and this can lead to misunderstandings. For example, Jennifer may be in a romantic mood at a given time while Alex is feeling friendly, but not romantic. The roles sometimes reverse, and you find that your feelings frequently just won’t synchronize. You also easily hurt each other’s feelings, not realizing how much the other person loves and cherishes you. By being flexible and adaptable, and really trying to sympathize with each other, you can avoid these problems most of the time.
Alex’s Mercury Trine Jennifer’s Mars:
You inspire each other to refine and clarify your ideas, plans and strategies. You are an effective team in research, writing, or business pursuits. You also help each other to successfully implement a plan or follow through on an idea until it manifests as a successful product or creative work. You also have spirited, feisty debates with one another.
Alex’s Mercury Sextile Jennifer’s Uranus:
You spark each other’s wit and imagination, and you probably enjoy joking with each other. You bring out creative, inventive ideas in each other, and you develop original and creative ideas together.
Alex’s Mars Trine Jennifer’s Pluto:
As your relationship grows over time, you begin to work together very closely on shared goals and objectives. You develop a joint sense of purpose and you join together on projects that are rich in purpose and meaning. The intimate blending of your creative efforts and career goals makes the two of you that much closer and the bonding between you is very strong. Physical and sexual attraction is also strong, and chances are high that if you marry, this will be a lasting, strong union.
Alex’s Saturn Trine Jennifer’s Neptune:
There is an unspoken sense of working together for spiritual growth or of helping one another unselfishly, a spiritual commitment to one another which is subtle and often not strongly felt by either of you until adversity assails you. Through your relationship, there is a deepening of your faith and a serious pursuit of your dreams and spiritual yearnings.
Alex’s Saturn Sextile Jennifer’s Pluto:
The two of you can be a very disciplined, focused, dedicated team, working towards realizing some ambition. You help one another achieve your deepest life purposes, and if either or both of you is a workaholic, the relationship between you will bring that to the fore.