The Compatibility Report for
Birth Data for Dakota:
4 October 1989
Birth Data for Chris:
2 March 1977
This Lovers Report is divided into 4 chapters.
Chapter 1 compares your temperaments and personalities. The issues described in Chapter 1 become particularly powerful if you are married or live together. Idiosyncrasies or quirks in another person’s personality do not bother us as much if our relationship is a casual one. For example, if one person is neat and tidy and the other is sloppy, this is more likely to become a concern if you are married than if you are only seeing each other occasionally.
Pay close attention to the issues described in Chapter 2 because these are the most important themes in your relationship. For example, if themes of romance and sexual attraction are emphasized, then you can count on this relationship being a passionate one. However, if romance and sexuality are hardly mentioned at all, then this relationship will not be a passionate one. Note also that the material in Chapter 2 is presented roughly in order of importance, so that the material presented at the beginning of Chapter 2 is the most powerful.
Chapter 4 describes issues in your relationship of less importance than those presented in Chapter 2. Chapter 3 describes situations and circumstances that arise if you have a close, long-lasting relationship.
If a statement appears to contradict another statement, then your roles are likely to alternate. For example, a statement that Dakota is more aggressive than Chris, and another statement that Chris is more aggressive than Dakota, means that you alternate roles, with Dakota sometimes being the leader and Chris being the follower, and sometimes just the opposite. Also, read the statements carefully, as it is likely that a careful reading will reveal different kinds of aggressiveness or areas in which the aggressiveness is likely to express itself.
To make the most of this report, combine this astrological analysis with other things that you know about each other. For example, we have assumed that you are opposite-sexed (assuming that both of you are heterosexual, otherwise same-sexed). Physical attractiveness, age, religion, education, family and cultural background will affect your relationship as well. The material in Chapters 2, 3, and 4 of this report describes the magnetism between you, but does not describe your individual natures. For example, suppose that Chapter 2 makes little mention of romance and sexuality, but the Natal Reports for each of you indicate that each of you has extremely strong romantic and sexual desires. In this case, marriage is not likely to be successful! However, if romance and sexuality are not important to either of you, then the lack of passion in your relationship is not likely to be as much of a stumbling block.
Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of
the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of
students of astrology, these positions, along with other
technical information, are listed below:
Positions and Data for Dakota:
Sun position is 11 deg. 34 min. of Libra
Moon position is 5 deg. 10 min. of Sagittarius
Mercury position is 25 deg. 48 min. of Virgo
Venus position is 25 deg. 40 min. of Scorpio
Mars position is 9 deg. 54 min. of Libra
Jupiter position is 9 deg. 56 min. of Cancer
Saturn position is 7 deg. 45 min. of Capricorn
Uranus position is 1 deg. 36 min. of Capricorn
Neptune position is 9 deg. 40 min. of Capricorn
Pluto position is 13 deg. 48 min. of Scorpio
Asc. position is 17 deg. 40 min. of Capricorn
MC position is 5 deg. 16 min. of Scorpio
2nd cusp position is 25 deg. 33 min. of Aquarius
3rd cusp position is 3 deg. 33 min. of Aries
5th cusp position is 0 deg. 57 min. of Gemini
6th cusp position is 23 deg. 50 min. of Gemini
Tropical/PLACIDUS Daylight Savings Time observed. GMT: 19:49:00
Time Zone: 6 hours West. Lat & Long: 30 N 16 01 97 W 44 34
Positions and Data for Chris:
Sun position is 12 deg. 03 min. of Pisces
Moon position is 4 deg. 35 min. of Leo
Mercury position is 0 deg. 42 min. of Pisces
Venus position is 21 deg. 17 min. of Aries
Mars position is 16 deg. 28 min. of Aquarius
Jupiter position is 24 deg. 36 min. of Taurus
Saturn position is 11 deg. 18 min. of Leo
Uranus position is 11 deg. 40 min. of Scorpio
Neptune position is 16 deg. 05 min. of Sagittarius
Pluto position is 13 deg. 38 min. of Libra
Asc. position is 12 deg. 08 min. of Virgo
MC position is 6 deg. 44 min. of Gemini
2nd cusp position is 3 deg. 56 min. of Libra
3rd cusp position is 1 deg. 58 min. of Scorpio
5th cusp position is 13 deg. 57 min. of Capricorn
6th cusp position is 16 deg. 06 min. of Aquarius
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 17:52:00
Time Zone: 0 hours West. Lat & Long: 50 N 43 3 W 31
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
Dakota’s Sun in Libra and Chris’s Sun in Pisces:
Both of you are good listeners and you are receptive to others’ points of view, and you dislike having to engage in competitive behavior or aggressive tactics in order to get your point across or receive fair treatment. You appreciate that your partner shares your gentle attitude. Dakota, however, may sometimes feel that Chris is too gentle and receptive, being evasive or vague when asked questions or unable to be definite and articulate. Dakota thrives on dialogue while Chris often prefers to simply take in lots of ideas and ponder them for a long time before offering a point of view. Dakota also has a strong sense of justice and equality and can be vengeful towards those who are seen as unjust, while Chris is more likely to feel compassion and sympathy even for those who are guilty.
Dakota’s Moon in Sagittarius and Chris’s Moon in Leo:
Both of you are basically friendly, cheerful souls and you reinforce one another’s essential optimism, generosity, and playfulness. Much emotional harmony exists between you. Together you feel expansive and enterprising, and you enjoy games, sports, gambling, carousing, and life in general!
Some differences may arise between you, though. Dakota is more restless, more of a wanderer than Chris, who is more constant and steady emotionally. Dakota needs to feel free and cannot tolerate being completely domesticated or tethered to a possessive partner. Chris, on the other hand, is loyal and wholehearted in love, and wants the complete attention and devotion of a partner.
Also, Dakota is rather blunt and tactless at times, which can offend Chris’s strong pride. Chris takes Dakota’s candid statements very personally, very much to heart, whether Dakota means them that way or not – yet Chris will often pretend that nothing is wrong (again, the strong pride!). For the most part, however, you suit one another very well!
Both of you have Sun conjunct or in hard aspect to Saturn:
Both of you possess and innate capacity for much self-discipline and self-control, which at times leans towards excessive self-denial, personal inhibitions, an overly serious, burdened feeling about life, and a harshness toward yourselves. You share a tendency to feel inadequate due to very exacting, perfectionist standards you place upon yourselves. In order to fulfill your ambitions and purpose in life, you both may have had to give up a lot, including parental approval or support from outside of yourself. This enables you to have compassion for one another’s struggles in life, if you are open with one another. However, you each tend to keep a lot inside and erect barriers between yourselves and other people.
Mars & Neptune hard or conj for Dakota, soft for Chris:
You share a tendency to be discontent with yourselves and your efforts, particularly if there is no imaginative, spiritual, creative, or humanitarian element to your activities. Dakota, in particular, is prone to feelings of aimlessness and discouragement unless surrounded with others who also have creative aspirations or higher ideals. Chris, however, is apt to be supportive and encouraging, and at your finest, the two of you can share your dreams with one another.
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
Sun Mutually Aspects Pluto:
This is a very intense and complex relationship! You may feel both deeply attracted and repelled by one another, and somehow unable to avoid one another. You draw out the inner, hidden side of each other and your interactions are invariably intense, direct, and never superficial. Powerful passions, ego drives, and the hidden darker side of your personalities are revealed through your interaction. If either, or both, of you cannot handle feeling so “exposed”, then the relationship will become very tense as you try to resist the intensity of this relationship. You spur and challenge each other to excel and you may become an unbeatable team, working for a lofty goal or very deep, personal, creative expression. Be wary of a tendency to be competitive or jealous of each other, for the fascination that you have for each other quickly turns to envy if you ever feel like you are competing rather than cooperating with each other.
Dakota’s Sun Conjunct Chris’s Pluto:
Dakota is fascinated, intrigued, and sometimes even mesmerized by Chris’s inner qualities. You draw out each other’s deepest, hidden feelings, drives, needs, and ambitions. The uncovering of your inner needs and hopes is likely to cause both of you to undergo some major personality changes as a result of this relationship. You share a deep, inner bond; this is not a light or superficial relationship!
Chris’s Sun Trine Dakota’s Pluto:
Dakota helps Chris achieve personal goals, activate Chris’s latent talents and strengths, and encourages and promotes Chris’s creative work and endeavors. You can be a very successful duo. However, Dakota can be more driving and ambitious for Chris than Chris is, like the “stage mother” who pushes her child to shine and to excel even when it is not the child’s own aspiration. Dakota can have a profound influence on Chris, most likely for the good, but possibly not. Subtle manipulation and domination on Dakota’s part should be avoided.
Dakota’s Venus Opposition Chris’s Jupiter:
The two of you spark each other’s sense of humor and good will. You usually put each other into a good mood, and you can count on lots of laughter, fun, and socializing to develop from this relationship. You feel open and uninhibited with each other, and a great appreciation for each other grows out of your happy times together.
Chris’s Sun Trine Dakota’s Jupiter:
The two of you really enjoy each other’s company! Dakota has a great deal of confidence in Chris and is able to see Chris’s best qualities. You are very encouraging and supportive of each other, helping each other to be more confident, open new doors, and advance and grow in both inner and outer ways. This positive note of good will and harmony is also invaluable in helping the two of you overcome differences in temperament and other stressful aspects of your relationship discussed elsewhere in this report.
Dakota’s Sun Sextile Chris’s Saturn:
There is a deep sense of mutual commitment and dedication that keeps the two of you together, even when you face difficult times. Chris is very dedicated and loyal to Dakota, sincerely interested in being responsible to Dakota, and willing to make sacrifices when necessary. The two of you work well together on practical matters and business affairs. If you marry, you will find that you can rely on each other to be helpful and responsible.
Chris’s Asc. Trine Dakota’s Neptune:
Chris’s sympathy and charitable impulses are brought out by Dakota and there is much mutual tolerance, sensitivity, and good will between you. You help one another in an unselfish way. If Chris is a driving, ambitious person, Dakota can help Chris relax and let go of minor irritations and petty problems. If Chris is a more relaxed or passive person, Dakota will reinforce those traits.
Dakota’s Moon Trine Chris’s Moon:
Your moods, feelings, overall disposition, and personal tastes are very compatible and harmonious. There is a natural sympathy and appreciation that you share. You enjoy making a home together and your domestic life promises to be very harmonious and agreeable.
Dakota’s Mercury Trine Chris’s Jupiter:
Communication is open and harmonious. You are able to help each other incorporate new ideas and expand your perspective. If you have a close, long-lasting relationship, you will develop similar political, social, religious, and philosophical views. The similarity in your overall perspectives on life helps the two of you feel very happy to share your lives together. Your overall beliefs and aims are in harmony.
Chris’s Mercury Sextile Dakota’s Uranus:
You spark each other’s wit and imagination, and you probably enjoy joking with each other. You bring out creative, inventive ideas in each other, and you develop original and creative ideas together.
Chris’s Mars Square Dakota’s Pluto:
You inspire, inflame, vitalize, and energize one another and you can accomplish much together, but you can easily become overly zealous, even fanatical, in your pursuits. It is also likely that your objectives will sometimes be different and you will feel at cross-purposes with each other. You often end up in power struggles, being very competitive with each other, and trying to manipulate or dominate one another. Dakota, especially, can override or undermine Chris’s efforts.
Sexual attraction is very strong, but as with other things, one of you is likely to come on too strong to the other and this may be offensive to your partner. There is a driving, compelling, somewhat impersonal quality to your love-making at times.
Dakota’s Mars Sextile Chris’s Saturn:
You work together on tasks and problems very well. Your daily lives run smoothly, and you are able to coordinate efforts in a smooth, harmonious manner.
Destiny and Final Outcome of Your Relationship
Composite Sun Conjunct Neptune:
The two of you idealize one another and your relationship. There is a fairy tale quality, a feeling of magic and enchantment, of uniting with your soul mate, that permeates your bond. A delicate and subtle rapport exists between you, which cannot be described in concrete terms except to refer to it as a soul connection. It’s an intuitive knowing of one another, and a sense of blending together spiritually.
However, because of the stars in your eyes you may not see one another very clearly. Your True Love may disappoint you with very human imperfections, flaws, and inadequacies – things you may take in stride with other people, but for some reason with this person seem like a terrible betrayal. If you can love one another unconditionally, including all of one another’s human frailties, you will fulfill the purpose of this relationship. Neither of you needs to be a saint or a martyr for one another -just be yourselves!
Another potential pitfall for the two of you is to encourage in each other excessive idealism, false hope, unrealistic fantasies, and an urge to escape into paradise. Try to keep your feet on the ground while at the same time pursuing the many dreams you will have together. As a couple, the ocean or seaside is very beneficial to you.
Composite Mercury Conjunct Mars:
Vigorous debates and intellectual sparring will inevitably play a key role in your relationship. What you might try to convey tactfully in other circumstances, you will state directly and unequivocally with each other. This can lead to numerous arguments and disputes, not so much due to deep differences of opinion but simply due to the way you both communicate with one another.
It is likely that one or both of you will come to feel verbally attacked, or criticized for petty things, unless you both are willing to work on being gentler in the manner you speak to one another.
On the other hand, if you enjoy bantering, competing intellectually, and hotly debating various issues, you may not consider any of this a problem. It will, however, be an ongoing dynamic in your relationship with each other.
Composite Sun Sextile Saturn:
One of the positives in your relationship of the sense that you can always count on each other, and that no matter what, you have a steady, reliable friend in one another. Conscientiousness, loyalty, the capacity to stay with it over the long haul – these are essential aspects of your bond.
Practical matters, the business of daily living, work, and taking care of mundane affairs are also very much a part of it. You work well together. Planning and investing for the future, and making wise financial choices together are emphasized.
Composite Sun Sextile Pluto:
You are undeniably a powerful duo, and the way you relate to one another affects the people around you much more than you realize. You tend to evoke either great admiration or great envy, because of the intensity of your bond.
You cannot avoid learning one another’s deepest fears, desires, motives, and aspects of one another that few others have ever seen. You can’t hide much from one another. This won’t trouble you but instead will be the basis of an especially profound relationship.
Fateful, unexpected events which are very much beyond your control will shape your relationship to a significant extent.
Composite Moon Trine Venus:
Mutual devotion, tenderness, affection, and caring are the essence of your relationship, and creating a home together, making a family, and/or nurturing one another are an important part of the reason you two have come together. The love you share will sustain you and buffer any blows, difficulties, or problems that you will face.
There is a protective, almost maternal feeling generated between the two of you. A relationship based on compassion as much or more than passion is apparent. A high degree of fertility is also clearly indicated.
Composite Moon Sextile Uranus:
As a couple, your will have many unusual experiences, and a lot of friends who are unique, interesting, creative, and quite different from one another. You could gather a “family” around you that is quite unlike a traditional or “normal” family, including adopted relatives and close friends. A certain openness, acceptance of deviance from the norm, and willingness to learn from unexpected sources will be essential in this relationship. Being able to flow with change and live in the present moment will be necessary too, as there is a certain, ongoing movement in your relationship that precludes settling down into any established routine for very long.
Composite Mercury Opposition Jupiter:
Being together stimulates grandiose visions, an overly optimistic or idealistic assessment of possibilities, and a tendency to go out on a far limb, financially or otherwise. Together you take bigger risks and speculate with your money, time, and energy, in ways you might be too prudent to or afraid of as single individuals. Somehow when you are with each other, distant horizons always beckon; you are not content with where you are, literally or figuratively. Long-range planning will be necessary to fulfill some of the grander goals the two of you have. Traveling for pleasure or for purposes involving spiritual, educational, or personal growth will definitely be part of the picture.
Composite Venus Sextile Uranus:
As a couple the two of you will attract a lot of unusual friends, eccentric or creative people who will make life interesting and entertaining. Openness to experimentation, especially regarding expressing yourselves sexually or how you derive pleasure and enjoyment, will play an important role in your relationship too. You’ll find that your interaction is always dynamic and changing, so that both of you are taken by surprise and cannot take anything for granted regarding each other. This keeps your connection fresh and stimulating, although you may wish for a little more peace and “sameness” at times.
Dancing, music, or rhythmic, graceful sports like skating or swimming are things you will excel in as a couple.
Composite Mars Opposition Jupiter:
Together you will take the kind of risks in life that neither of you may have dreamed of doing individually. You encourage, invigorate, and spur one another on to greater achievements. Partly through competition and egging one another on, each of you aspires toward goals that may well have seemed out of your reach before you two came together. Even in minor, day-to-day matters there is a positive, we-can-do-it spirit that infuses your relationship.
You will need to be very active together and are prone to get cabin fever, to feel cramped and unhappy together, if you are not tackling challenges or doing something rambunctious. Physical play and adventure are essential ingredients for the health and success of this relationship.
Other Themes in Your Relationship
Dakota’s Sun in Chris’s 2nd house,
Chris’s Sun in Dakota’s 2nd house:
Developing financial security and material well-being is a big theme in this relationship. You also help each other clearly define what is really important to yourselves, what is really worth working for. You work together successfully in building a stable, strong basis for yourselves.
Dakota’s Moon in Chris’s 3rd house:
There is a natural smoothness and ease with which Dakota can express ideas and concern to Chris, which fosters a warm friendship between you.
Chris’s Moon in Dakota’s 7th house:
Chris is more willing to cooperate and make compromises with Dakota than with most other people. Chris often plays a supportive role to Dakota, quietly providing assistance and support to Dakota. This will be true even if your relationship is not a serious or permanent one.
Dakota’s Mercury in Chris’s 1st house:
Dakota is able to talk to Chris in a very open, candid, uninhibited manner, and Chris appreciates Dakota’s point of view. This, however, can be taken to extremes, and Dakota may sometimes try to persuade Chris to agree with, and follow, a certain point of view.
Chris’s Mercury in Dakota’s 2nd house:
You enjoy planning financial strategies together, and Chris provides Dakota with lots of ideas on business ventures, investments, and practical application of job-related skills.
Dakota’s Venus in Chris’s 3rd house,
Chris’s Venus in Dakota’s 3rd house:
Your conversations are generally pleasant and enjoyable. You argue with each other much less than you do with other people.
Dakota’s Mars in Chris’s 2nd house:
Dakota takes an active interest in the way Chris handles finances and assets. Dakota may try to force individual opinions in these matters and try to take over the responsibility of handling finances.
Chris’s Mars in Dakota’s 1st house:
Chris comes on strong, almost aggressively to Dakota, and this relationship is a lively, dynamic one. Chris spurs Dakota to do more and be more. Dakota may feel inspired by Chris, but may also feel that Chris is too pushy.
Dakota’s Jupiter in Chris’s 10th house:
Circumstances develop so that Dakota is able to assist Chris in career and achieving long-term goals. Dakota takes a great interest in Chris’s ambitions and is a great supporter and promoter of Chris’s talents. You can also be very successful in business activities together.
Chris’s Jupiter in Dakota’s 4th house:
The warm and nurturing side of Dakota is brought out in this relationship. If the two of you live together, it is likely that you will enjoy a high level of domestic harmony. You enjoy your times at home together and both of you contribute much to making a pleasant home life together.
Dakota’s Saturn in Chris’s 4th house:
If your relationship is a long-term one and you live together, you can expect that this relationship will bring both of you face to face with personal habits of your own that must be improved, or at least adapted to the tastes of your partner. Issues such as tidiness and neatness at home, use of abusive or foul language, choice of foods, tastes in music and decor, approaches towards raising children, etc. come to the fore. At times you will come to an impasse and feel that you cannot come to an agreement on these issues. Chris, in particular, may become very frustrated by some of Dakota’s deeply ingrained, personal habits. If your ethnic backgrounds or upbringings are very different, this problem can be severe. If both of you can be tolerant, open-minded, accepting of shortcomings in your mate, and willing to learn new attitudes, you can turn potentially frustrating situations into opportunities to mature and grow emotionally.
Chris’s Saturn in Dakota’s 7th house:
Dakota feels that Chris is a person who will be trustworthy, stable, mature, and committed to the relationship, and there is, indeed, a high level of security and stability that can be counted on in this relationship. Both of you feel comfortable making commitments to each other so if romantic attraction is also strong, then there is an inclination towards marriage. However, over time Dakota may also find that Chris is critical of Dakota’s friends and discourages Dakota from participating in many social activities. It is also likely that the two of you will discover that you have different views of what marriage is and what the commitment of marriage entails, and you may find that you have to work hard at structuring your relationship in a manner that is satisfying to both of you. For example, one of you may have more liberal views on marriage and the other be more traditional and old-fashioned.
Dakota’s Uranus in Chris’s 4th house:
Dakota challenges many of Chris’s deeply ingrained attitudes and many of the habits and personal tastes that are developed from early childhood. Dakota often encourages Chris to break free from the past, although this encouragement is often subtle and not overt. Dakota needs to be careful not to overlook the value of Chris’s heritage, and you both need to be able to preserve what is good in the past without remaining attached to habitual tendencies that are not fulfilling or healthy.
Chris’s Uranus in Dakota’s 10th house:
Chris has lots of original ideas on how Dakota can best achieve career goals. Chris is likely to encourage Dakota to take a more adventurous, risky route, and Chris often feels that Dakota holds back by being too conservative and security conscious. However, not all of Chris’s ideas are well founded, and Dakota must have the ability to separate the really useful creative ideas from those that will only result in chaos and confusion.
Dakota’s Neptune in Chris’s 4th house:
There is a good deal of fantasy, imagination, and playfulness in your relationship. Dakota, in particular, sparks Chris’s imagination and intuition. One way this quality is likely to express itself is in the style of your home, which is likely to be decorated and arranged in a very imaginative way.
Chris’s Neptune in Dakota’s 11th house:
You are likely to become involved in social groups, political or altruistic organizations, committees, and religious groups together. A big challenge will be how to maintain a high level of integrity and honesty in these activities so that the ideals can be reached.
Dakota’s Pluto in Chris’s 3rd house:
Dakota sometimes expresses ideas and opinions in a very forceful manner to Chris, who inspires Dakota to take a strong stand on issues, but Chris may feel that Dakota is too narrow-minded at times. The two of you can work well together in areas that require concentration or bold presentations such as research, marketing, etc.
Chris’s Pluto in Dakota’s 9th house:
Chris challenges Dakota’s philosophical and religious views. You are likely to find yourselves in enthusiastic, and sometimes heated, conversations about politics and social issues. These conversations are penetrating and deep, and both of you are likely to find them illuminating, although often uncomfortable as well.
Dakota’s Sun Trine Chris’s Mars:
Successful cooperation in achieving goals and accomplishing tasks is highlighted. You make an excellent working team and you are able to assist each other in achieving specific, concrete goals. The sexual attraction between you is also very strong.
Chris’s Sun Sextile Dakota’s Neptune:
A strong feeling of sympathy and shared idealism is an important link between the two of you. Your ideals, intuitions, and religious aspirations are very harmonious and you work very well together, and are able to assist each other to grow spiritually, often in an unconscious way. You help each other to look beyond the immediate personal problems and concerns, and focus more on your higher aspirations and loftier ideals.
Dakota’s Asc. Square Chris’s Venus:
There is a strong romantic quality to your relationship, but you will also experience times when the qualities of your partner contrast sharply with the qualities that you had envisioned that your “Ideal Lover” would have. Do not try to force your partner to conform to your desires; each person must be true to themselves.
Dakota’s Asc. Square Chris’s Pluto:
Chris is a force for considerable benefit or harm in Dakota’s life, either greatly enhancing Dakota’s personal power and confidence, or seriously undermining it. Chris forces Dakota to examine the hidden motives and intentions behind Dakota’s actions, and may bring out some unsavory aspects of Dakota’s character or past history.
An intense confrontation of wills, often going on in a subtle, behind-the-scenes way, characterizes your interaction at times. It is very likely that there is much “unfinished business” of an emotional or personal nature which draws the two of you together, and may bind you in a powerful love-hate, “can’t live with him, can’t live without him” relationship.
Chris’s Asc. Trine Dakota’s Saturn:
Dakota is a stabilizing force in Chris’s life, and offers steady, quiet support when Chris is in need. Dakota may help Chris build a firm foundation and long-term security for Chris’s life. It is easy for you to be committed to one another, both as friends and as lovers.
Chris’s Asc. Sextile Dakota’s Jupiter:
Dakota benefits, supports, or promotes Chris in some way, assisting educational or career goals, or some other aspiration that Chris has. Dakota also provides Chris with the extra impetus or enthusiasm needed when Chris is discouraged. You both help each other see the humorous side of life.
Chris’s Asc. Sextile Dakota’s Pluto:
Dakota brings to the light something hidden or beneath the surface in Chris’s life. Suppressed feelings or ambitions, strengths as well as flaws, come out as a result of your relationship. You are unable to hide much from one another.
Dakota’s Moon Square Chris’s Mercury:
Chris needs to guard against the tendency to be critical, unsympathetic, and overly analytical of Dakota’s feelings, personal tastes, and habits. Chris may feel that Dakota is overly sensitive to criticism, and refuse to acknowledge responsibility for the problem as well. Petty annoyances, minor disagreements, and bickering can be avoided only if you both learn to listen sympathetically and to communicate clearly with each other.
Dakota’s Mars Conjunct Chris’s Pluto:
You draw out of each other your deepest drives and desires. The two of you arouse a zeal and sense of mission in each other that makes it possible for you to jointly accomplish extraordinary tasks. However, your fears and anxieties are brought to the surface too, and there is no guarantee that your zealousness will produce positive, constructive results. You may become fanatical in an extreme and unbalanced manner. Also, sexual passion, jealousy, and competition can be very volatile, disruptive, obsessive, and intense in this relationship.
Dakota’s Jupiter Trine Chris’s Uranus:
This is a relationship in which you both can feel free to change, explore, invent, try creative or unusual ideas, and express your more adventurous or unconventional sides. Together, you have an expanded sense of what is possible, and the confidence and enthusiasm you feel with one another enables you to “go for it”! You help bring out one another’s originality and creative impulses.
Chris’s Saturn Square Dakota’s Pluto:
In addition to the harmony and fulfillment you may both experience together, there is a difficult, darker side to your relationship as well. Your deepest fears or character defects are brought to the fore, and you must confront the very things you have avoided or tried to hide about yourself in the past. This can be a very painful process and you may begin to resent, try to control, or suppress your partner. You are much too serious and heavy with one another at times, and must be sure that you give equal time to play and to appreciation of the positives. Otherwise, over time, this relationship will weigh both of you down.
Chris’s Uranus Conjunct Dakota’s Pluto:
Things are unlikely to become dull or predictable between you, as there is a strong current of intense change and constant renewal in your relationship. Your deepest desires for freedom and for new life and growth can be fulfilled in this relationship but will probably come about as a result of some radical decision and break from the past, a complete disruption of the status quo, especially for Chris. You may never quite feel like you are on stable ground together, and this can be very exciting or very uncomfortable, depending upon your individual temperaments.